Why I’m Embracing My Natural Gray Hair

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Even at the tender age of 26, I have come to realize a few fundamental truths about life:

  1. Whether or not a deity exists is debatable, but the genius behind Netflix is undeniably worthy of reverence.
  2. Cheetos, despite their notorious reputation for staining fingers and drawing judgment, are simply too delicious to resist.
  3. Going to bed angry will only amplify those feelings by morning.
  4. As I age, I plan to let my hair transition to gray.

Now, I must clarify that “as I age” is a bit misleading since my hair has already begun its journey into silver territory (I currently sport a distinguished streak). My days of being a dark-haired individual are numbered, and soon I’ll be fully embracing a salt-and-pepper look. Surprisingly, I welcome this change.

A pivotal figure in my acceptance of gray began to shape my views at a young age. When I was 14, I met Marco, a stylist who I’m convinced was sent to guide me through my hair journey. At that time, I was desperately trying to tame my ethnic curls. The options for curly-haired girls in the early 2000s were limited: either chemically straighten your hair or conform to the gel-heavy styles that were in vogue back then.

I opted for heat treatments. My hair, much like my identity, resisted any attempts to change it. Often, it looked as if I had just stuck my finger in an electrical socket. In a bid to save me from potential burns, my mother booked me an appointment at a high-end salon specializing in curly hair.

Enter Marco.

Marco’s salon was the most luxurious place I had ever visited. I was greeted with a mocktail and draped in a silk robe while I enjoyed a relaxing head massage as my hair was washed. It was a delightful experience. However, the atmosphere shifted dramatically when the stylist washing my hair discovered my first gray strand. She recoiled as if she had found something repulsive and called for the other stylists to witness the anomaly.

Fortunately, Marco was not having any of it. He returned from a break, dismissed the commotion, and made an emphatic statement: “Promise me you won’t dye that! You’ve earned those gray hairs.”

Marco was a striking figure—bald, flamboyant, and clad in leather. He was effortlessly the coolest person I had encountered. I found myself promising him I would embrace my gray, despite my earlier reservations.

Since that encounter, I’ve undergone personal growth and learned to appreciate my authentic self. This journey hasn’t always been easy. After facing challenges, including weight gain during a sugar detox, I’ve come to realize that I’ve earned the right to wear my imperfections with pride.

Now, as my hair continues its natural transition, I look forward to embracing my silver strands. I intend to honor my promise to Marco, facing this change with courage. If society has issues with it, that’s not my concern.

It’s important to note that everyone has the right to make choices about their bodies, including hair color. I respect those who choose to dye their hair or undergo cosmetic procedures. However, I advocate for celebrating our natural selves, which can be a daunting endeavor, particularly in a world that often urges conformity.

As I embark on this journey to embrace my gray hair, I recognize that it may not always be easy. I might experiment with colors occasionally just for fun. But I invite anyone interested to join me in this celebration of natural beauty.

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In summary, embracing the natural aging process, including gray hair, is a personal journey that many can relate to. While I acknowledge that some may choose to dye their hair, I firmly believe in the importance of celebrating one’s authentic self, flaws and all.

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