As I reflect on my life in my mid-40s, I can confidently say that my “coolness” has evolved significantly over the past ten years. This realization hit me while I was organizing my kitchen utensils (stay with me, I promise it gets interesting), and I found myself humming along to an alternative rock song that’s been stuck in my head. I know every lyric! Yes, I’m definitely cooler now. Here are eight compelling reasons why:
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I Know the Lyrics to Every Contemporary Hit
Ten years ago, my playlist was dominated by children’s music that was far from trendy. Now, thanks to having teens at home, I’m immersed in the latest tunes. My car rides are filled with music that doesn’t revolve around dinosaurs or trains, marking a significant upgrade in my musical education. -
Fashion Sense Is Sharper
In my 30s, I often struggled to discern which styles suited my age. Thankfully, having teenage daughters has been a game-changer. They’re always ready to advise me on what’s chic and what’s a fashion faux pas (there’s no middle ground!). I can’t imagine navigating trends without their guidance. -
Embracing Statement Jewelry
Having grown up in the ’80s, I’ve always loved bold earrings. However, I had to put them aside during my kids’ toddler years to avoid any mishaps. Now, I rock those dangly earrings once again, with my daughters ensuring I don’t go overboard with the style. -
Enjoying Quality TV Shows
I’ve transitioned from watching children’s programming to enjoying series like ‘The Big Bang Theory’ and ‘Mad Men’ on Netflix. I’ve even dabbled in shows like Game of Thrones, although I have to be cautious with the content while my kids are still young. The days of Phineas and Ferb are long gone! -
Comfortable Under Garments
My bras have undergone a transformation; they’re no longer designed with flaps that require complex maneuvering. Now, I can simply take them off without any worries, which is a liberating experience. -
Spit-Up-Free Wardrobe
Gone are the days of wearing clothes stained with dried baby spit-up. My wardrobe is finally free of those unfortunate remnants of early motherhood! -
Diving Into Bestselling Reads
With all the time spent waiting in the car during school pick-ups and sports practices, I’ve turned those moments into opportunities for reading significant literature, devoid of illustrations. -
Retro Styles Are Back
High-waisted pants, leggings, and off-the-shoulder tops? I’ve been there, done that, and I’m embracing them once again. Fashion trends from my past have made a comeback, and I’m thoroughly enjoying it.
Overall, I can confidently assert that I’m cooler now than I was a decade ago. In fact, I believe I was even more stylish in my 30s compared to my 20s. With each year, I feel like a fine wine, improving with age. I’m excited to see what new experiences and styles the coming decade will bring. For those considering various paths to parenthood, check out this resource on artificial insemination, or learn more about the process here. For more options, consider this authoritative source.