This summer will forever be etched in my memory as the time I transitioned into the world of parenting a tween boy. One moment, my child was enveloped by a mountain of stuffed animals, and the next, he was sprawled out on his bed, earbuds firmly in place and engrossed in YouTube videos about Minecraft—no stuffed animals in sight. (Don’t worry, his beloved plush buddy is still around, just tucked away.) The shift occurred almost instantaneously. While he’s always been skilled at delivering eye-rolls and clever quips, my son has taken his attitude to new heights since turning 11. I often find myself in moments of disbelief, realizing that we might be on the cusp of full-fledged teenagehood. The train is chugging towards me; I can hear its whistle—and it’s definitely got an attitude.
In light of this new phase, I am trying to concentrate on the benefits of my eldest child’s new stage of life. With a 9-year-old brother, a mischievous almost-6-year-old, and a toddler with emerging opinions, I have a clear perspective on how my tween’s characteristics—both good and bad—stand out. Here are some aspects of having a tween boy that are genuinely enjoyable:
- Shared Understanding of Privacy
We’re finally on the same wavelength regarding my need for some personal space. While I still can’t manage to use the bathroom alone, my tween has come to terms with the horror of accidentally seeing me naked. If he suspects that I might be undressed, he keeps his distance and, should he catch a glimpse, he covers his eyes and yells. It’s both a relief and a humorous blessing. - Understanding Sleep Patterns
I could never grasp why small children resist bedtime yet spring out of bed at dawn. My tween, however, relishes in sleeping in and staying up late to read. This behavior is refreshing and makes perfect sense to me. - Ability to Care for Himself
He is officially out of diapers! He can wash his hair (most of the time), prepare his own snacks, operate the microwave, brush his teeth, and dress himself. He can even swim. It feels like I’ve finally regained some freedom after years of tending to the physical needs of small children. If only he could master the art of coordinating an outfit! - Quieter Nature
Though he still has his moments of whining and sulking, he generally emits a quieter aura than his younger siblings. Most of the time, he’s in a corner with his earbuds in, which is a fair trade-off. - Developed Sense of Humor
He’s genuinely funny—his humor makes me laugh for the right reasons. This week, as he watched his brothers approach the kiddie pool for its warmth, he smirked and said, “I wonder if they know why it’s warm?” Having his perspective around is truly enjoyable. - Competent Helper
He can carry things with ease, whether it’s baby gear from the car, luggage at the airport, or juggling takeout and grocery bags. It’s like gaining two extra hands—if those hands could talk back with, “What am I, your servant?” (The answer is yes, indeed you are.) - Appreciation for My Music
In our minivan’s ongoing debate between DVDs and CDs, he votes for my music preferences. Cheers to Imagine Dragons and Maroon 5 over the umpteenth viewing of a cartoon! - Potty Training Success
‘Nuff said. - Occasional Sweet Moments
He occasionally surprises me with heartfelt sentiments, making them even more precious due to their rarity. For example, when I dropped him off at camp, he hugged me tightly and whispered, “I’m going to miss you.” He even tweaked his baby sister’s chin while asking her not to grow up too fast. It nearly melted me. - Adult Food Preferences
He now orders salads at dinner—and eats them! While his list of dislikes may be extensive, he’s surprisingly open to trying new foods and has developed a more mature palate. I hope he won’t be taking dates to fast-food joints in the future.
I recognize that I’m in a unique phase with my son—a sweet moment where he’s no longer an unreasonable little kid, yet not quite an unruly teenager. He’s at the perfect age to be both a delightful companion and still my child. Although I’m faced with increasing attitude and the emerging willfulness that will likely send me to a hair colorist soon, I’m determined to savor this moment and appreciate it for what it is. I never could have envisioned the person he is becoming when he was just a baby or even when he was three. This is a gratifying place to be, even if it is fleeting.
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Summary
Navigating the tween stage with a boy can be a delightful experience filled with newfound independence and enjoyable moments. As he transitions from childhood to adolescence, parents can appreciate the quirks and growth that come with this unique phase, creating a balance between parenting and companionship.
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