In the future, when researchers analyze the visual history of our time, will they conclude that mothers were absent from their own narratives? While we excel at chronicling our children’s lives through countless photographs shared on social media, it’s essential to reflect on our own presence in these memories. As noted in a poignant article by Sarah Bennett, many mothers often exclude themselves from family photos, prioritizing their children’s milestones over their own representation.
Many mothers who contact me for family portraits frequently request to be left out of the images, often believing they need to lose a few pounds first. When I do manage to include them, they contort their bodies to hide perceived flaws. I’m guilty of this too; even when my loved ones look stunning in a photo, I may discard it if I’m not satisfied with my appearance. After reading Sarah’s article, I’ve been making a conscious effort to remain in the frame—whether with my children, my partner, or even alone. Here are some tips I share with clients to help them feel more confident in front of the camera:
- Elevated Angles: Always position the camera above the subject. This perspective is flattering and avoids the unflattering “looking up” angle often seen in amateur photography.
- Body Positioning: Stand at a right angle to the photographer and then twist your hips towards the camera. This technique creates a more flattering silhouette.
- Chin Down: Contrary to popular belief, raising your chin can create unflattering angles. Instead, keep your chin down and lean forward slightly to avoid the appearance of a double chin.
- Genuine Smiles: Have a friend tell you a joke or engage in playful antics to elicit a natural, joyful smile. A forced smile is easily recognizable.
- Good Posture: Standing tall with shoulders back can enhance your appearance, making you look slimmer and more confident.
- Natural Light: Utilize window lighting for a soft, flattering glow. Be sure to turn off the flash and have your photographer face the light source.
- Subtle Colors: Opt for muted tones rather than bold patterns, which can be distracting. A simple outfit can be transformed beautifully in black and white photography.
- Footwear Matters: Wearing heels, even if they won’t be visible in the photo, encourages better posture and can boost your confidence.
- Incorporate Your Kids: If you’re uncomfortable being the focal point, involve your children in playful interactions. Their presence can divert attention from any insecurities you may feel.
- Embrace Your Confidence: Reflect on vintage family photos—who is that stunning woman in heels? That’s you! Own your image for the sake of future generations.
It’s time for mothers to embrace their presence and create lasting memories, including themselves.
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In summary, capturing family moments should include mothers as well. By employing these strategies, they can feel more confident and present in their family photos, ensuring their legacy lives on in shared memories.
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