I’ve recently discovered that my fellow moms and I are being labeled as “Dance Moms” at our local All-Star cheer and hip-hop gym. This information was shared with me in hushed tones, almost as if it was something to be embarrassed about. While some may view the term negatively, I embrace it wholeheartedly.
Since our family relocated here in 2015, my daughter joined this gym shortly thereafter. Over these past three years, the kids have formed bonds that exceed my expectations; they refer to themselves as a sisterhood. Practicing 4-5 days a week is not just about dance; it’s about sharing joy with their favorite people. I left behind wonderful friendships in our previous city, hoping to find a similar community here.
These “dance moms” have truly become my family. They are always ready to lend a hand, whether it’s picking up kids from school, delivering snacks, or staying at the gym to watch over each other’s children when someone is running late. We enjoy coffee dates, share a glass (or bottle) of wine, and have dinners without the kids. These women are not just friends; they are my emergency contacts and aunts to my children.
Engaging in a dance or cheer gym is a significant commitment. It involves practices, competitions, early mornings, and late nights. Sometimes, it means traveling across the country, sharing hotel rooms with friends, and participating in team dinners, sleepovers, and bonding events. It’s essential to enjoy the company of those who are on this wild journey with you.
Countless hours are spent creating team gifts, driving my daughter to the gym, organizing parties, and attending team events. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. My daughter is thriving, fulfilled, and driven at just seven years old. The friendships she has formed with her teammates will last a lifetime, as will the connections our families have built.
Interestingly, I am also a hockey mom, yet that label doesn’t carry the same stigma as being a dance mom. So judge me if you wish. Mock me for saying “we won” at competitions. While I might not be on the dance floor, my support for these kids is unwavering. Call me a dance mom if you like; I wear that title with pride. And I bet if you experienced what I have, you would too.
Signed,
A Proud Dance Mom
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Summary:
In this blog, the author embraces the title of “Dance Mom” and celebrates the supportive community formed among fellow dance and cheer parents. Sharing personal experiences, the piece highlights the joy and fulfillment that comes from being involved in a child’s passion, while also addressing the societal perceptions attached to the label.