As I entered a restaurant with a few friends, I was immediately taken aback by the hostess’s stunning complexion. Her skin was radiant and flawless, the kind of beauty that makes you yearn for a perfect skincare routine. Naturally, I didn’t voice my admiration – that would be awkward, right? So, I simply thanked her for seating us and moved on.
However, after enjoying a couple of martinis with dinner, I found myself feeling bold on our way out. I decided to approach the hostess’s station. “Excuse me,” I said, trying to be quick, “but I just had to tell you how beautiful your skin is! It looks like something straight out of a magazine!”
Her face lit up with delight, her smile as radiant as her complexion. “Thank you so much!” she replied, clearly taken aback. As I walked out, I noticed she was still smiling—perhaps my compliment made her day.
It got me thinking: why do we often hold back from sharing kind words? Sure, we understand the value of not saying hurtful things; that can lead to conflict. Calling someone out for bad behavior rarely results in anything constructive. But what do we lose by keeping compliments to ourselves? Why do we save kind words for moments of “liquid courage,” like when we’ve had a few drinks?
Take a moment to observe the women’s restroom at a bar or club. While waiting at the sink, you’ll inevitably overhear exuberant comments like, “I LOVE YOUR SHIRT!” or, “Your makeup is flawless!” It’s a phenomenon fueled by the confidence that comes with a few cocktails. Drunk people tend to express their thoughts openly, and surprisingly, those compliments come from a genuine place.
What if we made an effort to share our positive thoughts without needing a drink to embolden us? I often find myself admiring strangers: the mother in front of me at the grocery store rocking the perfect messy bun or the teen who’s so sweet with their younger sibling. But why don’t I just speak up? The worst that could happen? A stranger might give me a puzzled look, but if they do, that’s a reflection of their own issues—not mine.
I’m setting a personal goal to express my thoughts openly. If I admire someone’s shoes while we’re side by side in the frozen food aisle, I’m going to let them know. Not only will that person leave feeling uplifted, but I will too. Plus, our children are watching. They may not witness the affectionate exchanges that take place in bar restrooms, but they will learn how to treat others based on our actions. So, spreading compliments like a tipsy friend not only brightens someone’s day but also lays the groundwork for a kinder future.
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In conclusion, sharing compliments is a simple yet powerful way to enhance our interactions and foster a more positive environment. So the next time you think something nice about someone, don’t hold back!