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By: Jordan Thompson
Updated: April 21, 2023
Originally Published: April 21, 2023
Living in a bustling city and frequently using public transport, I’ve encountered my fair share of inconsiderate individuals. Unfortunately, it’s become a part of urban life. While I understand that rude behavior can manifest in various places—like the bank line or a crowded parking lot—there’s one particular annoyance that has me riled up: the loud use of electronics in public spaces.
It’s truly frustrating to hear someone blaring their music, talking loudly on their phone, or streaming videos without headphones. Seriously, that’s what headphones are for! They exist so you can enjoy your content without forcing everyone around you to endure it.
It’s astonishing that I even need to point this out, but it’s not just rude; it’s often against the law. Many cities have established noise ordinances for a reason. A sign might read “No Loud Music,” yet some individuals choose to ignore it entirely. What gives?
You’re free to enjoy whatever tunes you like, but that doesn’t mean the entire vicinity should be subjected to your playlist. Frankly, I often find myself judging your taste in music when you blast it—because it’s usually the ones with the least appealing choices who think the world is eager to hear their selections. Spoiler alert: we’re not.
Headphones are widely available and affordable; I recently picked up a decent pair for just ten bucks at a local store. So, why not use them?
And let’s not overlook the individuals who have loud phone conversations in public. Do you really not know how to moderate your voice? Do you want everyone around you to be privy to your personal life? I once witnessed a woman on a crowded bus in Los Angeles having a very public argument about child support with her ex. Trust me, no one needed to overhear that drama.
Of course, sometimes we all need to take calls while out and about. I’m not against that. However, when the subject is highly personal, it’s best to wait for a more private moment. It’s just basic courtesy. If you must take that call, please keep your voice down; no one signed up for your conversation.
And for parents out there, if you let your kids watch videos or play games on your devices, please remember that volume controls exist for a reason. My daughter knows that when we’re in public, she needs to keep her video at a reasonable level. I don’t want to be subjected to the “Baby Shark” song on repeat while I’m trying to enjoy a meal.
Ultimately, it comes down to this: don’t be inconsiderate. It’s not hard to show respect for those around you in shared spaces. Your audio preferences do not outweigh the comfort of others simply because you’ve chosen to disregard common decency.
Those who play their music loudly in public are quite similar to individuals who leave their shopping carts in the middle of the aisle. There’s no justification for such behavior, yet they make the conscious choice to be inconsiderate. When it’s so simple to be a decent human being, why choose otherwise?
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In summary, let’s all strive to be more considerate in public spaces. A little thoughtfulness goes a long way in creating a more pleasant environment for everyone.