It’s finally here—the moment you’ve eagerly anticipated for what feels like ages. A kid-free evening with your spouse!
While you may not be completely alone, your little ones’ 7:30 PM bedtime gives you a precious window of opportunity for some quality time before the youngest inevitably calls for mom around 10 PM.
So, how can you ensure that your wife is receptive to your advances tonight? What small gestures can you make to help her feel desired and ready for some intimate moments? If she’s already donned her comfiest pajamas and oversized shirt, you might have missed the mark. However, if you start your efforts early in the day, by the time evening rolls around, she’ll hardly be able to resist you.
Here’s a game plan to get you started:
- Rise Early
Don’t just wake up five minutes before her—set your alarm for at least 20-30 minutes earlier. Use that time to brew coffee, wake the kids, and set them up for a good start to their day. - Lend a Hand with the Kids
Be proactive in the morning chaos. If your son needs help with his socks, be the hero. If your daughter is having a meltdown over sock color, find a way to calm her down. Your involvement matters. - Do a Load of Laundry
Yes, you read that right. Toss a load in the washer to show that you’re contributing to the household chores. - Show Spontaneous Affection
A little physical touch goes a long way. Whether it’s a playful squeeze or a gentle brush against her, these gestures can ignite some sparks. - Check In During the Day
A simple “How’s your day going?” text can mean the world to her, especially if she’s feeling overwhelmed at work or at home. - Send Flirty Texts
Get into the mood by sending her some playful and flirty messages. A little anticipation can go a long way. - Be Punctual
If you say you’ll be home by 6 PM, stick to it. Late arrivals can disrupt her plans and might dampen her spirits. - Express Gratitude for Dinner
Regardless of how the meal turned out, show appreciation for her efforts. A simple “Thank you for dinner” can make all the difference. - Help with Cleanup
Don’t just leave your plate in the sink. Take the initiative to load the dishwasher with all the dishes, including serving items. If you want bonus points, even start the dishwasher! - Offer a Relaxing Massage
While enjoying a show or movie she loves, offer her a massage. It’s a simple yet thoughtful way to help her unwind.
Implement even a few of these suggestions, and you’ll likely see a more appreciative side of your wife. A spouse who feels valued is more inclined to reciprocate those feelings.
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In summary, by taking small yet significant actions throughout the day, you can set the stage for an intimate evening with your wife. Don’t forget to express your appreciation—it goes a long way!