The shortage of referees is affecting children’s access to their favorite sports.
If your children participate in sports, you’ve likely witnessed a scene that could be titled “Adults Acting Inappropriately,” where a parent berates a referee during a game. This often occurs over a perceived missed call or foul, resulting in an outburst of anger directed at those officiating the game. Unfortunately, this behavior has become so prevalent that a significant number of referees are choosing to quit, leading to a shortage that directly impacts our kids’ ability to play.
According to recent reports, one of the largest officiating organizations in the D.C. area, Capital Area Officials, is facing its most severe shortage of referees in over 25 years. Only about half of the umpires who complete their first year return for a second season, as noted by Commissioner David Roberts. The situation in the Football Officials Association is similarly dire, with a 40 percent decline in officials over the past three years. Nationally, a staggering 80 percent of high school referees leave before completing their third year, according to the National Federation of State High School Associations.
The frustration among referees stems from the rising levels of verbal abuse from parents, coaches, and even the players themselves. Incidents of physical confrontations, including parents shoving referees, have been captured on video. Many officials enter this role out of a passion for the sport, striving to do their best amid constant criticism, often for minimal compensation—referees typically earn between $12 and $45 per game, depending on the sport and region.
It’s astonishing how many self-proclaimed experts appear at youth games; you’d think every one of them had a stint in professional sports. If parents believe they can officiate better than the refs, they should step up and volunteer. However, I understand that they may feel too busy to do so. But let’s not forget that these referees juggle jobs and responsibilities outside of officiating, just like everyone else. They deserve respect and support.
It’s true that parents may react out of concern when a bad call could lead to injury for their child. But maintaining composure and recognizing that mistakes happen can make a world of difference. No one performs flawlessly all the time.
As a result of this ongoing issue, many youth sports games are facing delays or cancellations as organizations scramble to find enough officials. Others are proceeding with games understaffed, which can increase the risk of injury on the field. Parents must remember that referees are dedicating their time to help enhance their child’s skills and teach them the game. Practicing patience and kindness, and thinking before reacting can create a better environment for everyone involved.
After all, our children are observing our behavior.
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In summary, the alarming trend of referees leaving youth sports due to abusive behavior from parents and spectators calls for change. We must foster a supportive atmosphere that respects officials and focuses on the enjoyment and development of our young athletes.