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Before you jump to conclusions, let me clarify: I wouldn’t recommend the Fertility Awareness Method (FAM), also known as Natural Family Planning, to just anyone. This approach requires a thorough understanding, meticulous application, and a committed partnership (it doesn’t protect against STDs), along with a clear grasp of the method’s risks.
However, for those who meet these criteria, I can confidently say that the Fertility Awareness Method is an effective and empowering form of birth control. It can be used independently or alongside other methods, avoiding the complications and side effects that often accompany hormonal contraceptives.
I’ve employed FAM for the past 20 years, starting when my partner—then my boyfriend—and I began cohabiting. For the first ten years of our marriage, FAM effectively prevented pregnancy. When we decided to start a family, it helped me pinpoint the optimal times for conception.
In those two decades, we only had one “oops” moment, which resulted in an early miscarriage. At the time, I was nursing a toddler, and I attribute the incident to my erratic hormones. I also admit I was somewhat lax with the method during that period because I was open to the idea of getting pregnant. Still, I consider that a commendable track record.
Statistics from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) are consistent with my experience: 1 to 5 out of 100 women may conceive in the first year of perfect FAM use—meaning they adhere to the guidelines precisely. With average use, where adherence might not be as strict, the pregnancy rate increases to 12-24 out of 100.
The effectiveness of FAM hinges on your commitment; this isn’t the right choice for everyone.
Guidelines for the Fertility Awareness Method
So, what are the rigorous guidelines you must adhere to? FAM encompasses three key methods: observing cervical mucus, tracking basal body temperature (BBT), and employing the “standard days” method, which involves marking your cycle on a calendar. You can utilize these methods separately or combine them, although using all three together is the most effective approach.
Cervical mucus observation might seem unappealing, but it simply involves monitoring changes in your cervical fluids to identify when you are most fertile. While it requires some intimacy with your bodily functions, it can be empowering to understand your natural rhythms.
After a few months of observation, you’ll notice patterns in your cervical fluids, with an abundance of slippery mucus indicating ovulation. Avoid intercourse during this phase, or opt for barrier methods around your fertile days.
Tracking your temperature can be fascinating, albeit a bit tedious, as it requires daily measurements right upon waking. A basal body thermometer is essential for this task; thankfully, they are affordable and readily available. By charting slight increases in body temperature that occur post-ovulation, you can confirm when ovulation has concluded, aiding in safe sexual practices.
There’s so much more to delve into regarding timing, handling irregular cycles, and more. I highly recommend the book “Taking Charge of Your Fertility” by Toni Weschler, a definitive guide on fertility awareness. Additionally, you can find charts and apps to help track and interpret your cycles. If you desire personalized guidance, there are FAM and Natural Family Planning coaches available to assist you.
Although it may seem complex initially, once you immerse yourself, it becomes intuitive. In fact, it can be quite addictive—I’ve turned into a bit of a fertility awareness enthusiast, frequently discussing my cervical mucus status with my husband (who handles it like a champ).
What I appreciate most about FAM is how it keeps me connected to my body, my cycles, and my sexuality—all while effectively preventing pregnancy without hormonal or barrier methods, which have never suited me. It’s a win-win situation.
To reiterate, this method is only suitable for those who are fully committed. But if you’re ready to take the plunge, it truly works and will empower you as you embrace your fertility journey.
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In summary, the Fertility Awareness Method can be a robust and empowering choice for birth control when approached with dedication and knowledge, allowing for a deep connection with one’s body and reproductive health.