On a snowy morning, I gathered my family and turned on the news. Amid the chaos of changing diapers and cleaning up spilled snacks, I caught a glimpse of a baby with Down syndrome on the screen. My heart raced with anticipation as I waited for more information. My husband and I, eager to learn more, quickly turned to Google for answers. And then the big reveal happened.
Lucas was crowned the Gerber baby of 2018, and he just happens to have Down syndrome. This moment marked a significant shift in the narrative surrounding disabilities. It was a pivotal announcement that altered the future for children like my son. This one revelation reshaped what we deem “adorable” and opened up a world of possibilities for families everywhere. In that instant, time seemed to freeze, and tears of joy filled our eyes.
When my son, Leo, was a baby, I constantly received suggestions to pursue modeling for him. Even his grandmother insisted every time I shared a photo on social media. I laughed, thinking her perspective was clouded by the love only a grandparent could have. I often wondered if people genuinely found him cute or if it was compassion disguised as admiration. More than anything, I doubted the world’s readiness to embrace his uniqueness. No, that’s not entirely truthful. I wasn’t ready. I feared the rejection I believed would come and dreaded the heartbreak that might follow.
I was completely mistaken.
To my dear Leo:
I owe you an apology. I underestimated the world that I strive so hard to advocate for. I champion acceptance and inclusivity, filling my social media with the countless reasons you are so lovable. Yet, when faced with reality, I felt compelled to protect you and myself. I didn’t have the courage to face potential hurt. For that, my sweet boy, I am truly sorry. I vow to do better. I promise not to hide you from experiences just because of what others might think. That is not who I am, nor who I want you to be. The world is filled with kindness, openness, and is ready for you!
With all my love,
Mom
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In summary, the announcement of Lucas as the Gerber baby of 2018 was a groundbreaking moment for families with children who have Down syndrome. It challenged societal perceptions and opened up conversations about acceptance and inclusion.