February 10, 2023
My partner and I often find ourselves at odds over how we should approach the safety of our children, particularly our daughters. While I tend to be cautious and prepare for worst-case scenarios, he believes in giving people the benefit of the doubt. He often mentions some statistic about the rarity of child abductions, claiming the odds are 1 in 300,000, excluding custody-related cases.
But here’s the thing: I have three daughters, and that statistic doesn’t apply when it comes to the risk of sexual assault. The truth is, the odds of a girl being assaulted are much higher—it’s 1 in 6.
I don’t want my daughters to live in fear or to avoid forming relationships with men. However, I feel it’s essential for them to be discerning about whom they trust. This could very well protect them from potential harm down the line. If a decent guy feels slighted by this perspective, I’m honestly not concerned. The focus should be on the real issue: sexual assault.
If we want to change how mothers like me raise their children regarding safety and awareness, it starts with addressing the root cause of sexual violence. We need to educate kids about consent and the importance of recognizing and rejecting toxic behaviors.
For instance, when my daughters witness inappropriate behavior, I encourage them to speak up. We can’t remain silent when we see something that doesn’t sit right, or we risk normalizing unacceptable actions. As the saying goes, the only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing.
I am committed to teaching my children about consent and that they have the right to say no. My goal is for them to identify and stand against rape culture. This is a conversation worth having, even if it makes us uncomfortable.
To the good men out there who might feel offended by my stance, I ask: What are you doing to change the narrative?
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In summary, while not every man is a potential threat, it’s crucial to equip our daughters with the awareness and tools they need to navigate a world where they may encounter risk. By fostering open dialogue and teaching them to trust their instincts, we can help them thrive in their relationships while emphasizing safety and respect.