It’s astonishing that this concept still eludes many. Yes, germs are ubiquitous—whether at daycare, during sports, at the playground, or even in our own homes. However, what truly concerns me is when an adult knowingly approaches my children while they’re unwell.
I don’t care who you are. I know you adore my kids; after all, they are incredibly cute! You want to shower them with affection, and I completely understand that—they reciprocate that love! Yet, here’s the harsh reality: germs don’t discriminate based on your intentions or your inability to maintain personal space. They can wreak havoc on my little ones’ immune systems, which are still developing. Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, aunt, uncle, friend, or an acquaintance, please refrain from approaching my children when you’re feeling sick.
I’m not interested in hearing, “It’s just a small cough” or “My throat feels a little scratchy, but I’m fine” or “I doubt it’s contagious.” What many fail to realize is that a minor cough or sniffle can be exponentially more serious for a small child. For babies, the typical remedies like an aspirator and humidifier offer limited relief. If your “little cough” turns out to be something more serious, it could lead to hospitalization or worse for a child whose lungs are still developing. So regardless of whether you have a cough, the sniffles, a sore throat, or even something more concerning, please keep your distance.
No Excuses, Please.
It doesn’t matter what the situation is. Perhaps we had plans for a playdate, you were invited to my child’s birthday party, it’s a holiday gathering, or you were meant to babysit. For the love of pizza, just stay home! There will always be other occasions to spend time with my kids, and I can easily find another babysitter. So regardless of the circumstances, please don’t come near my children when you are sick.
Respect Boundaries.
If we find ourselves in the same place, I kindly ask that you respect my request to keep your distance from my kids. This is not an act of rudeness; it’s a precaution to protect them from illnesses. You might feel offended, react negatively, or even curse me out, but I implore you to consider my stance. Just stay away from my kids when you’re feeling under the weather.
Has this message resonated yet? Don’t misunderstand me; I recognize that germs are everywhere. What I’m advocating for is basic respect and common courtesy. If you have plans with my family, please inform me if you or your child are experiencing any illness—even something as minor as sniffles—so I can decide whether or not to expose my kids to illness. This is the same courtesy I would extend to you.
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In summary, please be mindful of your health when interacting with my children. Their well-being depends on your consideration.