As a parent, nothing can be more nerve-wracking than attending events in my child’s preschool class and wondering how she will interact with her classmates. On the last day of preschool before the winter break, families were invited to join in a festive Christmas celebration. I arrived just in time for story and song time, where the teacher, Ms. Emma, was perched on a chair with a book, surrounded by a circle of eager kids on the carpet.
However, I noticed that my daughter, Mia, was sitting alone on a chair at the back. She was engaged and attentive, but at a distance, rather than in the heart of the activity. The other teacher approached me and kindly reassured me that Mia wasn’t being punished; she had simply chosen to sit there on her own.
At that moment, a wave of anxiety washed over me. My main concern was that she might not be connecting with the other children. Because of her speech delay, I worried that she was being unintentionally excluded. It troubled me that her difficulty in verbal communication might be hindering her ability to fully engage with her peers.
Seeing her sitting apart felt like a powerful metaphor for her current journey with speech development. I often find myself feeling that she is lagging behind, whether it’s in expressing her wants and needs or in social interactions. During story time, another child jumped up to peek out the window, and Mia quickly followed suit, both of them standing on their tiptoes to gaze outside.
In that moment, I felt a surge of self-doubt. Should I intervene and ask Mia to sit down? Why couldn’t she join the others on the carpet? To my surprise, Ms. Emma paused in her reading, glanced at the window, and said with a smile, “Oh, everyone needs to see what’s outside! Look at what Mia and Lily have discovered!” All the children rushed to the window, and there was Mia right in the mix, smiling and pointing out a cat on a leash.
In that moment, I exhaled. I had let my worries cloud my perception of her experience. Thanks to her teacher’s positive reinforcement, I witnessed Mia transition from sitting apart to being at the center of excitement. Maybe she isn’t so different after all. She is a strong-willed, independent girl, filled with love and curiosity. She isn’t afraid to observe from a distance and, when the time is right, she invites others to join in on the fun.
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Summary
Observing my daughter Mia’s interactions in preschool highlighted my fears about her speech delay and its impact on her social connections. However, witnessing her joyful engagement and independence reassured me that she is not as different as I feared. With support from her teachers, she navigates her world with curiosity and strength.