Dear Fellow Mama,
I see you nestled in your bed, grappling with the weight of getting up. A part of you may long for the comfort of oblivion, wishing that today never started. The struggle against the relentless thoughts swirling in your mind can be overwhelming, leaving you to ponder, “Is this life truly worth the fight?”
Yet, I witness the moment you gather your resolve, remembering why you continue to battle. You muster every ounce of strength to rise from your bed, propelled by the cries of your little one and the needs of your preschooler who’s waiting for breakfast. You know they depend on you.
I feel your heartache as you cradle that precious baby, watching the “big kid” relish his meal. You question what you did to deserve such a beautiful gift, all while wrestling with feelings of guilt for ever wishing to escape. The love you hold for your children brings tears to your eyes, and you can’t tell if they’re tears of gratitude or self-loathing.
I see you navigate your day, each small task a monumental win. It may not be perfect, but it doesn’t matter because you’re present for another day. You show up—whether it’s at the office, home, or school—determined to survive. Yes, the kids might have Pop-Tarts for dinner and you haven’t showered in days, living off drive-thru coffee and leftovers, but you’re still here. You’re still fighting, against all odds.
I see you, mama, pushing through the struggles because your children need you. Your tenacity shines through in every moment. They may not realize it yet, but their mother is a warrior—a queen, a saint, a living testament to the unwavering force of love.
People may judge you for not having fresh clothes or for crying in a bathroom stall, or they may disagree with your parenting choices. But let me remind you, none of that matters. What counts is that you showed up, you loved your kids, and that’s more than enough. Let that be your truth.
With warmth and solidarity,
A Mama Just Like You
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