One day, while running errands with my son, we made a brief stop at the grocery store. Our shopping cart quickly filled up with packs of soda. After grabbing a few additional items, we struggled to maneuver our heavy cart towards the checkout. As we passed the deli section, a woman shot me a disapproving look. I could sense her judgment; she assumed that the contents of my cart were the reason for my son’s weight. With a dismissive shake of her head, she muttered, “Ugh! I can’t… I just can’t…” and turned away. I felt an urge to explain our situation, but with our cart gaining speed, it hardly seemed worth it to stop and engage.
As I sit in the quiet of my home tonight, I feel compelled to share a message: if you see a child with weight concerns alongside a parent whose cart is filled with soda, please hold off on your judgment. There’s often more to the story than meets the eye.
The woman in the grocery store had no idea that my son has a rare genetic condition known as Prader-Willi syndrome, which is linked to obesity. She was unaware that his brain struggles to receive signals of fullness, leaving him to feel perpetually hungry, regardless of how much he eats. His condition causes his body to store fat more efficiently than that of a typical child, leading to an uphill battle for weight management.
What this woman did not see was the immense effort we put into managing my son’s weight—following a specialized diet, restricting caloric intake, and encouraging physical activity. Our pediatric endocrinologist even commended our dedication during our last visit, stating my son was “the healthiest child with Prader-Willi syndrome” she had encountered.
You might be thinking, “Well, surely soda isn’t helping the situation.” You’re right. That’s why my son hasn’t consumed soda in over six years. We also limit fruit juice to just a few ounces daily to assist with his iron supplement absorption. So, what was I doing with a cart full of soda? As a mobile home park manager, it’s my responsibility to stock the soda machine every few months.
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In summary, we should all strive to be more understanding and less judgmental, as appearances can be deceiving.