Updated: Dec. 1, 2017
Many of us grow up learning the significance of good manners, particularly the importance of phrases like “please” and “thank you.” Likewise, we all appreciate hearing gratitude for our efforts, even when those efforts are part of our everyday responsibilities.
Yet, it’s astonishing how infrequently people take a moment to express a simple “thank you.” Some seem to treat these words like precious gems, hesitating to use them as if they’re on a limited supply. Let’s be clear: expressing gratitude should not be a rare occasion. Just say thank you, seriously.
Rather than holding back our “thank you’s,” we ought to share them freely, like confetti. We should express thanks at every chance we get, and we should genuinely mean it.
As a parent, I am adamant about this with my children. From the time they could speak, my husband and I have been teaching them to say “thank you.” At first, it felt like instilling a habit—much like saying “hello” or remembering to buckle their seatbelts. However, as they grew, they began to grasp the real meaning behind gratitude. Our discussions with our five-year-old son now revolve around what he appreciates in his life. If a child can understand this concept, surely we all can.
The phrase “thank you” carries weight far beyond its two syllables. By taking a moment to express gratitude, you’re acknowledging the efforts of others and treating them with the respect they deserve. It’s a recognition that can uplift someone, reminding them that their contributions, even if part of their job, truly matter.
Encouraging our children to say “thank you” is crucial, but fostering an understanding of respect and empathy is even more vital. It’s this sense of awareness that nurtures kindness and compassion—qualities that are sorely needed in our world. I want my children to know that they should expect the same respect and kindness they offer to others.
Everyone thrives on acknowledgment. Feeling appreciated fuels us in ways that little else can. A challenging day or hard work feels worthwhile when we know our efforts are valued. And let’s be honest—parenting can be incredibly demanding. It often feels like one of the most thankless jobs, which is a double whammy. As a mother, I frequently feel as though my contributions go unnoticed. Therefore, when my spouse or children take a moment to express their gratitude, it has a profound impact on me.
We could all benefit from a bit more positivity in our lives, so let’s make it a point to express “thank you” to others more often. It’s free, simple, and can be incredibly impactful, especially for those who might need a bit of encouragement. Whether the gratitude comes from our children, partners, family, friends, or even strangers—a little appreciation can go a long way. Let’s lead by example and practice gratitude whenever we can.
I’ll kick things off: Thank you. See how easy that was?
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Summary:
Expressing gratitude should be a regular practice, not a rare occasion. Teaching our children the value of saying “thank you” fosters respect and empathy, essential qualities in today’s world. Acknowledging the efforts of others can create a positive impact not only on them but also on ourselves. Let’s embrace gratitude and make it a part of our everyday lives.