I have an immense appreciation for language. You could say I’m truly passionate about words—like the kind of passion that leads to collecting quotes for wall art or getting them inked on my body. As a writer, my goal is to find that ideal word at just the right moment to express exactly what I mean. And sometimes, that ideal word is simply fuck.
I recognize that my choice to use this word can be controversial. It can evoke strong reactions, and I understand why. But eliciting a response is one reason why I choose to curse.
Words hold significant power. As a society, we’ve assigned a unique weight to certain expressions, especially curse words, labeling them as taboo. But really, how can a word be classified as bad? Sure, it might be loaded with emotion, but at the end of the day, it remains just a word.
Growing up, my mother was not one to swear. A gentle spirit who meditated daily, she always encouraged us to see the good in others. Thus, when an expletive slipped from her lips, it caught our attention immediately. It was a cue to behave—after all, who would dare to provoke an English teacher when she was upset? Ironically, by the time we hit our teenage years, her occasional F-bombs had become a source of amusement, especially coming from her petite frame.
I don’t toss around expletives carelessly, but I do recognize the value of a well-placed fuck. Sometimes, it’s to provoke thought, other times to emphasize a point, or simply for comedic effect.
As someone who adores language, I believe we should stop teaching our children that certain words are inherently bad. Instead, we should introduce them to the concept of strong words—those that carry more weight and can elicit stronger reactions. For instance, my daughter understands that it’s perfectly fine to sing along with popular songs, such as Gwen Stefani’s “This shit is bananas.” However, she also recognizes the need to be selective about when and where she shares such performances, especially around her more conservative relatives.
While strong words can lose their potency through overuse, I prefer to reserve my expletives for moments when they can have the greatest impact. I like my curse words as I like my coffee—robust, bold, and full of flavor for maximum effect.
Ultimately, my goal is for my daughter to grasp the power that words hold. They can heal, harm, silence, or inspire change. The stronger the word, the more significant the effect it can produce. This amplified power is precisely why many of us enjoy using them.
Consider the headline “Oh For F*ck’s Sake, The New Minion Toy from McDonald’s Isn’t Saying ‘Fuck’”—isn’t that much more engaging than “Parents Upset Over Possible Inappropriate Language in New McDonald’s Toy”?
So, I’ll continue to drop my carefully selected F-bombs and guide my daughter in understanding the influence of language, teaching her to wield words consciously and effectively. Do you enjoy the occasional expletive? Share this article with fellow word lovers—you’ll be so glad you did.
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In summary, embracing the power of strong language can enrich our communication. Rather than labeling certain words as bad, we should teach children about their potential impact and encourage them to use language thoughtfully.