Navigating motherhood can be a rollercoaster ride, but having a reliable friend by your side makes it all the more manageable. I’ve been fortunate to forge meaningful friendships throughout my life, but my mom BFF, Sarah, stands out as an indispensable companion on this parenting journey. We crossed paths when we were both juggling preschoolers and newborns, and our bond has only deepened since then.
Sarah is the first person I reach out to when I’m grappling with a parenting predicament—like when my child decided to experiment with fire or took a tumble down the stairs. She is an invaluable sounding board for those moments of panic. Not only do we share countless hours discussing the intricacies of parenting, but we also seem to view the world through the same lens—almost as if we’re wearing matching motherhood goggles.
We share laughter, tears, and the occasional venting session about the trials of parenting. Without Sarah, the journey of raising my kids would be far less enjoyable and infinitely more isolating. Here are ten signs that you’ve found your mom BFF:
- After a chaotic parenting incident, such as your child taking an unusual risk, she’s the first person you want to vent to.
- Your kids adore her and feel at ease in her presence, often referring to her as their second mom.
- You can confide in her about the days you struggle with motherhood, and she understands that it’s just a momentary feeling—never judging you for your honesty.
- She recognizes that while you cherish being a mom, you still need time to recharge. She’s the one who encourages you to take a break when you look like you’re about to lose it.
- When you need an escape from home, she shows up to take care of your kids. If she’s too far away, she’ll be the one to persuade you to hire a babysitter or mother’s helper.
- You both share similar parenting philosophies, allowing you to feel completely at ease leaving your kids in each other’s care.
- Her visits are a welcome relief, not a burden. You know she’ll lend a hand with chores or keep your kids entertained while you take a moment for yourself.
- When your child says something uproariously funny (and perhaps a bit inappropriate), you can’t wait to share it with her, often before telling anyone else.
- She knows your kids’ secret nicknames that only you use (like Crybaby Charlie and Mischief Maker Mia), and you are privy to hers.
- While your friendship flourishes around motherhood, it eventually expands into other life areas. You know that even as your kids grow, she’ll be the first person you call to celebrate milestones, like your first grandchild or to share an embarrassing parenting moment.
Mom BFFs are essential in helping us navigate the ups and downs of parenthood with their unwavering support and shared laughs. They reassure us that we’re not alone and that we can raise our children without turning them into little terrors. They’re our confidants, cheerleaders, and co-conspirators in this wild adventure.
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In summary, finding your mom BFF can transform your parenting experience into a more supportive and enjoyable journey. Cherish these friendships, as they provide not just companionship but also the assurance that you’re not navigating motherhood alone.