As you gaze upon a sprawling sea of Lego creations, a familiar sound drifts through the air. Is that… your bank account? Yes, it is, and it’s weeping for mercy. The tears flow more freely when you catch sight of overflowing toy bins, stuffed with everything from American Girl outfits to elaborate horse trailers, tea sets, and even the latest archery gear. Let’s not even get started on the expenses of travel sports. Your finances are barely clinging to life; kids have a knack for draining your wallet.
Research from the Center for Retirement Research at Boston College indicates that children “reduce household wealth” and can significantly increase the retirement risks for older working families. Bloomberg News reports that nearly half of all Americans are at risk of retiring without the financial means to maintain their current lifestyles, with kids contributing to this distress. Thanks a lot, kiddos.
According to the National Retirement Risk Index, half of the U.S. population faces the possibility of falling short of their financial needs by at least 10% upon reaching retirement. Some individuals may find ways to offset the financial burden of raising children by cutting back on their own spending, but those are the rare few who manage to be “fiscally responsible.” They don’t know the bliss of a comfy pair of Lululemon pants or the joys of a shopping spree at Sephora; after all, budgeting isn’t exactly thrilling.
And the situation is about to get even worse: Having kids means you’re likely to earn less and have fewer assets when it’s time to glide into those golden years. Bloomberg reveals that “households with children are expected to have lower income and lower wealth” by the end of their careers. For parents in their 30s, this translates to a staggering 3.7% decrease in income and a 4.5% drop in wealth for each child. As a mother of three, I can certainly relate—my credit card practically hides from me when I approach.
A significant factor in this financial mess is the “motherhood penalty.” Working mothers earn on average $9,400 less annually than their childless counterparts, according to Bloomberg. Furthermore, moms are “12% less likely to be employed for pay.” If we look closer, the statistics become even more alarming: 35.3% of women with kids under six stay home, as do 25% of mothers with older children, based on Bureau of Labor Statistics data. So, while you may feel like you’re engaging in the hardest work of all, you might just be jeopardizing your future financial security. Next time you think about expanding your family, consider those stylish retirement years you could be sacrificing.
Unfortunately, the financial drain continues even after the kids leave the nest. A study from Boston College highlights that “many parents keep providing financial support to their adult children.” In fact, 31% of adults report giving money to their grown-up kids, averaging around $3,084 each. That’s a significant sum that could be redirected into retirement savings. If we follow suit, we risk diminishing our own financial stability, potentially impacting our quality of care in our later years. I mean, who wants to navigate their twilight years with subpar nursing home care?
Sadly, most parents cannot rely on their adult children for financial assistance in retirement. Last year, a mere 9% of parents received cash from their grown kids. Seriously, folks—don’t forget the sacrifices your parents made. A little financial gratitude wouldn’t hurt, right?
In short, it’s no secret that raising kids is an expensive endeavor, and they can wreak havoc on your finances if you let them. But retirement is a reality we all have to prepare for, so it’s crucial to prioritize savings. Even if it’s just a few extra coins tossed into a savings account, every little bit counts. Parents, especially those with multiple children, need to be vigilant about saving every single cent.
Of course, saving isn’t always a feasible option for everyone. Many families find themselves living paycheck to paycheck, making difficult decisions between purchasing clothes for their kids or paying the utility bills. We recognize your struggle. However, if you can set aside even a small amount by cutting back on those frequent Target runs or daily coffee runs, now is the time to act. After all, none of us are getting any younger.
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