Last week, while shopping for some essentials like socks and sneakers for back-to-school, I stumbled upon a striking asymmetric black faux leather jacket. Instantly, I was distracted from our mission. Who could resist such a find? I dashed over to the display, fervently hoping to find it in sizes 4 or 5.
But here’s the catch: this jacket wasn’t for me. It was destined for my daughter—my not-so-little girl who still has a hint of childhood charm. The jacket was undeniably adorable, radiating a bold, biker-chic vibe that I absolutely adored. Sure, I already own a black leather jacket, but my daughter didn’t have one, and let’s be honest, she needed it.
(Yes, I said needed.)
Why? Well, because I’m “that mom,” the one who shops the children’s section for matching outfits for both of us. I’m “that mom,” the one who scours the internet for coordinating shoes, socks, and mommy-and-me ensembles. And yes, I’m that mom who thinks it’s perfectly adorable for a nearly 34-year-old to match her 4-year-old daughter.
And why shouldn’t I?
I’m not ashamed to admit that I enjoy dressing alike with my preschooler. Of course, I understand that this matching game isn’t for everyone, and that’s completely okay. Many moms might shy away from sporting a leotard paired with neon leggings or a tutu. Some might cringe at the thought of wearing a shirt emblazoned with Frozen characters or a bright pink jacket, and others believe that dressing like a child is simply absurd. After all, as an adult, shouldn’t I act my age?
Believe me, as a tattooed and pierced mom, I’ve heard it all.
Yes, I dress more demurely for work or formal events. But on weekends, vacations, or just relaxing at home? That’s when I fully embrace my playful side. Life is too short not to wear what you love and enjoy yourself.
Matching outfits bring joy to my daughter, and when she’s happy, I am too. Playing “twinsies” and coordinating our colors is a fun bonding experience for us. It’s our thing, from shopping trips to planning outfits. When we dress alike, my daughter walks a little taller, exuding confidence like no one else—especially when she’s strutting alongside her tutu-wearing, tiara-adorned mom.
And I can’t deny that I gain something from this arrangement as well. Typically, I’m quite structured and serious, so our “dress-up” sessions allow me to let loose and be a little more carefree. While some might label this behavior as cheesy or quirky, the reality is that I sometimes dress like a kid, and I do it for her, for myself, and for our shared joy.
Ultimately, it’s all about having fun. We look adorable, and life is simply too short not to embrace whimsy.
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Summary
In this piece, Lisa Harper shares her experience as a mom who enjoys coordinating outfits with her daughter. Embracing a playful side, she discusses how matching outfits strengthen their bond and bring joy to both of them. Lisa challenges societal norms about age-appropriate dressing, highlighting the importance of fun and connection in family life.