Let’s talk about the daily grind of being a working mother. Just this morning, I managed to get five kids out the door for school while my supportive partner was away on business, leaving me to tackle everything solo. Sound familiar? Here’s how my morning unfolded:
First, I woke the kids up after what felt like a million alarms. I had to convince them it really was a school day and that I was serious. Breakfast was a whirlwind of cereal, toast, eggs, and tea—everything you see scattered around me. Somehow, I found enough spoons, which is always a challenge.
I signed forms, filled out agendas, and stuffed envelopes with cash for school activities, and I’m proud to say only some of it was in quarters. I navigated a series of intense discussions about tsunamis, politics, peculiar cat behaviors, the art of miming, and the essentials for their ideal backpacks.
Then came the fun part: mediating squabbles over hairbrushes, shoes, and bathroom time, all while making sure lunches were packed and tucked into backpacks. I even managed to find cold packs to prevent any food mishaps—no ice in baggies today! #winning. I rummaged through the house to locate lost socks and a flannel shirt, and I calmed down a child who was upset about not having the “right shorts.”
After reviewing after-school activities and reminding everyone to be safe on the road, I walked my kids to the bus stop. I even timed my son as he stood on one foot, just as he asked. After giving hugs to the little girl upset about her shorts, I finally had a moment to breathe before heading off to work.
The chaos behind me will still be there when I return home after a long day. I’ll be juggling dinner prep, homework, and after-school snacks while trying to get everyone ready for their evening activities. Perhaps you can relate.
Here’s to the moms who have already accomplished so much before 8:30 a.m., rushing off to work while feeling like the day has barely begun. And to the stay-at-home moms managing little ones who seem to complicate your efforts to tidy up the same mess. We are in this together, and yes, sometimes it’s as if a bomb has gone off.
I remind myself that this phase will pass. Someday, we might find ourselves in neat kitchens or enjoying a quiet home. Yet, I hear from others that we will miss these messy days filled with love. The crumbs, laundry, dishes, and stray socks are all tokens of a busy, vibrant family life.
Today, I choose to embrace the mess. I’m letting go of the stress that comes from trying to achieve perfection. We are not meant to have immaculate homes, thriving careers, and perfectly behaved children all at once. We will catch glimpses of each of those things at different times, and that’s perfectly fine. What truly matters is the love that fills our homes. The clutter around me speaks volumes about the affection and joy my children bring into my life.
And look what I discovered when they left today: a heartfelt note. It’s a reminder of their love. These kids are the reason behind the mess, and they are also the source of my happiness. When they grow up, they may even express their gratitude for all the chaos.
We’ve got this, friends! Even if our countertops don’t reflect it.
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Summary:
This heartfelt piece explores the daily challenges faced by working moms, underscoring the chaos and love that fills their homes. Despite the messiness of life with children, the author chooses to embrace the imperfections and celebrate the joy that comes with motherhood.