As a parent of a child with sensory sensitivities and autism, my journey has been filled with unexpected challenges. Among these, navigating public restrooms has become a significant focus over the past several years. The disruptive sounds of flushing toilets and hand dryers can be overwhelming for my son, Ethan; they often induce fear and anxiety that has plagued him since he was a toddler.
When I take him out, I often find myself holding back on using restrooms to avoid the distress that accompanies these encounters. Potty training was particularly challenging, as we had to reassure Ethan repeatedly that he would be okay even if a hand dryer were to activate while he was using the toilet.
Today, I accompanied Ethan to his new elementary school, holding his hand as we toured the various areas he would soon call his second home. We planned to return tomorrow and Friday to familiarize him with the environment, the adults he might approach for help, and the expected behaviors in this new setting.
After exploring the cafeteria, we passed by the boys’ restroom. I asked Ethan if he wanted to experience flushing the toilet and washing his hands for himself. After he finished washing, he took a moment to examine the hand dryer. I cautiously suggested he give it a try—fully expecting him to shy away from it.
To my astonishment, he placed his hand beneath the dryer. I braced myself for a meltdown, yet none came. Instead, he was captivated by the blue light and the sensation of the air rushing against his palm. A wave of emotion washed over me as I watched him laugh—a sound I had longed to hear in relation to something that had caused him so much distress.
While it may seem trivial to some, this moment was monumental for me. Witnessing Ethan engage with the world around him and embrace new experiences feels like a significant triumph on our journey. His willingness to use the hand dryer today was one of the proudest moments of my life.
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In summary, today’s experience in a school restroom was not just another day; it was a testament to the progress my son is making in overcoming his fears. Each small step is a reminder that these victories, however minor they may seem, hold immense significance.