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Promises to My Best Friend Across the Miles
Updated: Aug. 31, 2023
Originally Published: Aug. 22, 2023
Dear Bestie,
I want to start by saying I’m sorry for leaving you behind. You’re aware of all the reasons that led to my departure, so I won’t dwell on them here. Just know that if there was ever a reason to stay put, it would be you. Our friendship has spanned nearly half of our lives, and we’ve navigated those painfully awkward phases together—somehow, we made it through. I honestly can’t picture my adult life without you by my side.
Let’s be real; neither one of us has it all figured out. But that’s what makes tackling adulthood together less daunting. I did my best to persuade you to come along, but adult responsibilities had other plans for you. Trust me, I seriously considered how to sneak you and your family onto that plane. It’s tough not being able to swing by and mooch off your air conditioning or binge-watch shows on Hulu. The time difference makes it hard to know if you’re free when I’m in crisis mode. Even though I didn’t want to leave, I hope you know you remain my most cherished friend, no matter the distance.
I promise to check in with you nearly every day.
One of the hardest parts about moving away is losing the convenience of our daily chats. We’ve always communicated through various platforms—text, Facebook Messenger, or Snapchat. There’s no reason we can’t keep that up! The time difference can even work in our favor; sometimes, while I’m just waking up, you’ve already had an eventful day. Even if it’s just sending you a funny meme, I’ll be in touch.
I promise you’re irreplaceable.
Let’s be honest: no one can take your place. You know way too much about me, and I don’t have the energy to foster a new friendship like that. Sure, I’ll make new friends, but they’ll never be as amazing as you. Our shared history is what makes our bond special, and I don’t have that with anyone else.
I promise to come to you first for advice.
You’re the only one who can tell me when I’m being unreasonable or overly sensitive. Your tough love is what truly motivates me to get my act together and face challenges head-on, especially since you follow through on your words.
I promise I won’t forget your important dates.
Your birthday is stamped in my memory (after celebrating it for countless years, how could it not be?). I’ve noted all your significant milestones in my planner. The gifts might arrive late—you know my feelings about the postal service—but rest assured, something will be on its way.
I promise we’ll get that tattoo together someday.
Whenever we can finally agree on a design, of course!
I promise my door will always be open.
Though I may not be the easiest to reach now, call me from the airport and say you’re on your way, and I’ll make sure to prepare for your visit. I might even tidy up a bit, but let’s be real, we both know I’m a bit of a mess.
Finally, I promise you will always remain my best friend.
You can call me sentimental if you like, but I know you’ve been thinking it all along. Probably rolling your eyes, too. But guess what? I genuinely don’t care because I love you. Now, please respond to my text!
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To summarize, distance may separate us, but my promises to you as my best friend remain steadfast. I’ll be there for advice, celebrations, and support, no matter the miles between us.