The children were joyfully playing in the kitchen while my partner and I huddled in hushed tones, grappling with the distressing news from Charlottesville, Virginia. There, a rally led by white nationalists and white supremacists escalated into chaos. Fistfights erupted, racial epithets were shouted, and Nazi salutes were made. The harrowing images from Charlottesville echoed the dark days of 1930s Germany, intensified by the KKK’s resurgence in 1960s America.
It’s painful to witness these scenes: flags adorned with swastikas, masked KKK members wielding torches, and the horrifying moment when a white nationalist drove a car into a crowd of counterprotesters, resulting in the tragic death of a 32-year-old woman. As hard as it is to confront this reality, we cannot turn a blind eye. We owe it to those who stood up for justice and solidarity.
It’s a daunting time to be Jewish in America, just as it is for people of color or those identifying as LGBTQ+. The chilling chants from that day—“Blood and soil!” “Jews will not replace us!” “Heil Hitler!”—resound in our memories. The phrase “Blood and Soil,” a Nazi slogan, historically emphasized a twisted ideology linking ethnicity to lineage and territorial claim. This toxic belief was formalized into Nazi policy as early as 1933, demanding that farmers present proof of Aryan descent to access benefits.
“Why do people hate Jews, Mommy?” my youngest asked as we walked to school last spring.
“Because they need someone to blame when things in their lives go wrong,” I explained. “It’s called scapegoating. They convince themselves that Jews are less than human, which makes it easier for them to act cruelly without guilt. They believe we deserve mistreatment, that we are somehow inferior.”
“But I’m Jewish, Mommy. Do they hate me? They don’t even know me.”
“They don’t want to know you because it would challenge their hatred.”
As I held her small, warm hand, dread washed over me for what the world might inflict upon her and my other daughters. The atmosphere has darkened since that spring day. My Jewish children face greater danger, as the alt-right has been emboldened. We need our government, allies, and citizens to voice their condemnation of white nationalism unequivocally. The “Unite the Right” rally was solely born from hate, violence, and a desire for genocide.
What eases my despair is witnessing how many others are willing to stand up for us. Thank you to the courageous individuals who refused to be intimidated, who spoke out for Jewish and Black communities even in the midst of a hostile crowd. Gratitude also extends to those across the nation who organized supportive anti-hate rallies in response to the abhorrent display of hatred in Charlottesville. Do not remain silent. Be a witness. Be an ally. Be the light in a dark time.
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Summary:
In a world fraught with rising antisemitism and hate, the importance of open dialogue with our children cannot be overstated. By confronting uncomfortable truths and encouraging empathy, we can help shape a more understanding future.