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In the wake of recent events, particularly the two-year anniversary of George Floyd’s tragic death, I find myself grappling with a mix of hope and frustration. As a Black mother of two young boys, aged 5 and 2, I dream of a future where they can thrive in a society that embraces them completely. I yearn for the collective outrage that followed George Floyd’s murder to translate into lasting allyship and action against racial injustice.
However, as time passes, I can’t help but feel disheartened by the diminishing conversations surrounding race and diversity. In the past, many individuals and organizations made grand statements, but now those discussions seem to fade. The reality is, while I hope for systemic change, my focus must shift to the immediate influence I have over my children.
A recent poll by The Washington Post revealed that 75% of Black adults fear violence against themselves or their loved ones due to their race. The heartbreaking events in Buffalo, where innocent lives were taken simply while grocery shopping, amplify my fears. I am acutely aware that everyday activities can pose risks for my sons.
As I strive to balance their youthful innocence with the harsh realities they may face, I’ve initiated conversations about our skin tones and the diversity within our family. I want them to feel comfortable discussing these topics openly. While I haven’t delved deeply into the reasons behind societal issues, I aim to introduce them to both current and historical events when the time is right.
As Black mothers, we endure emotional tolls from the state of the world. We need equitable access to power, the right to vote without hindrance, and tangible legislative changes to start feeling safe. Yet, amidst these challenges, we must remain present for our children. Each day can swing from witnessing global injustices to handling microaggressions at work and then back to nurturing my boys.
Despite these challenges, I choose to focus on the positive impact I can have. I make our home a sanctuary where my sons and their friends can express themselves freely and safely. This year, I’m looking forward to celebrating Juneteenth with them, as they are now old enough to grasp its significance. We plan to read “The Juneteenth Story: Celebrating the End of Slavery in the United States” by Alliah L. Agostini and enjoy comfort foods that connect us to our heritage. Events like Juneteenth are vital for fostering understanding and engagement in the fight for equality.
As mothers striving for a better future for our children, I urge us to reignite our efforts. There’s still much work to be done.
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