14 Reasons Why Valentine’s Day Is Overrated

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Let’s be honest: Valentine’s Day can be a real drag. Here’s why I’m ready to move on.

  1. Gift Pressure: Finding the right present to express love can be stressful. If you’re forgetful, you might end up giving something as embarrassing as a rubber band and a tube of lip balm.
  2. Relationship Reflection: The day prompts uncomfortable thoughts about your relationship status. It can force you to confront aspects you might not want to face.
  3. Cliché Gifts: Chocolates and red roses are so predictable. Sure, they’re edible, but who actually enjoys the orange creams?
  4. Awkward Dates: Opting for a dinner invitation to avoid a solo night can lead to uncomfortable moments, especially when you aren’t ready for a kiss.
  5. Gift Disparities: There’s that moment when your partner nails the gift, while you’ve gifted something like fast-food coupons. Awkward conversations ensue instead of romance.
  6. Breakups Before the Day: I once had a boyfriend end things just before Valentine’s Day, claiming he’d call later. Spoiler: he didn’t, and was engaged a month later.
  7. Color Overload: Can we talk about how much everyone hates red? If they don’t, they should.
  8. Feeling Left Out: Watching friends receive love notes and serenades while you get nothing can sting.
  9. Unrealistic Expectations: The pressure can lead to disappointment, like receiving a novelty gift instead of a heartfelt proposal.
  10. Gift Matching Game: You find yourself trying to guess what your partner will give you, only to feel obligated to match its value. Why not just exchange receipts?
  11. Anticipation Anxiety: After missing out on New Year’s kisses, the stress of Valentine’s Day can feel suffocating.
  12. Last-Minute Gifts: Receiving a cheap stuffed bear from the clearance aisle can feel more like a joke than a gesture of affection.
  13. Isolation Reminder: Ultimately, Valentine’s Day serves as a stark reminder of our solitude in the universe.

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In summary, Valentine’s Day can be a minefield of awkwardness, disappointment, and unrealistic expectations. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, it often serves as a reminder of our personal struggles and societal pressures.


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