This Year, I’m Focusing on S.M.A.R.T. Plans Instead of Resolutions

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It’s that time of year again when excitement builds around new experiences and setting goals, leading many of us to make those familiar New Year’s resolutions. However, if we’re honest, most of these promises often go unfulfilled, sometimes within just days or weeks. Am I the only one who’s found resolutions to be more of a hassle than a help? For as long as I can remember, my resolutions have revolved around weight loss, and spoiler alert: I’ve never successfully met a single one in 19 years.

This time around, I’m opting for a different approach. No resolutions for me, thank you very much. While I appreciate the tradition, I’d rather invest my energy into something meaningful and sustainable. Instead of vague resolutions, I’m embracing actionable steps toward lasting lifestyle changes.

Craft S.M.A.R.T. Plans Instead of Resolutions

You might ask, aren’t resolutions just a type of plan? Not quite. Resolutions often feel like mere wishes or dreams, while S.M.A.R.T. plans serve as the foundation for effecting real change. S.M.A.R.T. stands for Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic, and Time-based. When your plans adhere to these guidelines, you’re setting yourself up for success.

For instance, let’s take my typical resolution of losing weight:

  • Specific: While losing weight sounds more specific than just “getting healthy,” it lacks a clear action plan. How would I achieve this—by exercising more or making healthier food choices? It’s too vague.
  • Measurable: Weight loss is measurable, but without a clear metric, progress can feel insignificant. If I set a goal of losing 75 pounds in six months, that translates to about 12.5 pounds a month or 3.25 pounds a week. For most of us, that level of commitment can seem unrealistic.
  • Attainable: Each element of S.M.A.R.T. depends on the others. Aiming for an unrealistic target can lead to disappointment and frustration, especially if you lack the resources of a personal trainer or chef.
  • Time-Based: Saying “I’ll lose weight this year” doesn’t establish a concrete timeline. Should I start immediately in January, or can I procrastinate until after the holidays? Without a deadline, I have no urgency.

Clearly, there’s a notable distinction between simply making New Year’s resolutions and laying out actionable steps for meaningful change. And remember, even if things don’t go as planned, that’s perfectly okay.

Breaking Free from Tradition This Year and Beyond

I’m uncertain who created the concept of New Year’s resolutions, but it seems to lead to a lot of frustration. What’s intended to inspire hope and transformation often spirals into dissatisfaction. Here’s the truth: You don’t have to make resolutions! It took me nearly two decades to realize this. Growing up in a culture that equates worth with productivity can lead to some misguided beliefs.

If making resolutions brings you happiness, then go for it! But if they become a source of guilt, it’s time to let them go. Don’t allow your commitment to a resolution to overshadow its intended positive impact on your life. This practice should serve as a tool for you to live your best life, however that looks for you.

Now, if you’ll excuse me, I’m off to create my plans focused on mental health advocacy, body acceptance, and being the best parent I can be. For more insights, check out this engaging blog post. If you’re interested in home insemination, Cryobaby is a trusted resource, and the CDC provides excellent information on pregnancy and home insemination.

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In summary, this year, let’s prioritize S.M.A.R.T. plans over vague resolutions. Focus on specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-based goals that truly resonate with your lifestyle and aspirations.

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