Throughout my life, I’ve encountered a slew of comments regarding my tattoos: “Why would you do that to yourself?” “You used to be so pretty.” “What will your daughter think?” “You’re going to regret those when you’re older.”
They’re talking about my tattoos, and while I might regret some things in life, my body art isn’t one of them. Generally, I approach life with a relaxed attitude, especially when it comes to society’s narrow definitions of beauty. I am a confident woman with very few regrets.
In fact, I can count my regrets on one hand. Whether I end up regretting my tattoos is irrelevant. They’re a part of me — my piercings and other body modifications reflect my love for my body as it is today.
So, your opinion? Honestly, I don’t need it.
I understand this might sound harsh, but I refuse to apologize. It has taken me years to accept and love my body, and I will not let anyone’s judgment lead me back into the spiral of self-doubt.
Growing up, I was plagued by insecurity. I thought my thighs were too thick, my breasts too small, and my stomach a bloated mess. I felt like a complete disaster. In my quest to hide my perceived flaws, I bought oversized clothing, padded bras, and wasted money on diet pills. Unfortunately, nothing worked.
At 17, I was grappling with body dysmorphia and an eating disorder that wasn’t easily classified. Thankfully, I eventually sought treatment and professional help. But the scars, both physical and emotional, ran deep.
Even after I was “better,” I continued to criticize my body. It took years to slowly heal, and during that time, I discovered the transformative power of body modification. Decorating my skin with tattoos shifted my perspective. Instead of focusing on imperfections, I began to see promise and beauty in my body.
With my newfound modifications, I felt empowered. My tattoos became symbols of my journey, telling a story of resilience. The beautiful floral designs that now adorn the scars on my abdomen are a testament to my growth.
I understand that tattoos aren’t for everyone, and that’s perfectly fine. You don’t have to appreciate my tattoos or my body; what matters is mutual respect for individual choices. Remember, if you can’t say something nice, it’s better to stay silent.
No matter your size, shape, or style, you are beautiful just as you are. So, let go of societal pressures and embrace who you are. Take a moment to appreciate yourself for all that you are, and let that self-love flourish.
You are worth it, and so am I.
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In summary, embrace your body and your choices. Stand firm against negativity and celebrate your uniqueness. After all, we are all beautiful in our own way.