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As a plus-size person, the Halloween season can be quite a struggle. Growing up, I eagerly anticipated Halloween every year. While I never was particularly fond of the spooky aspects, I adored the costumes and candy. My parents always indulged me with fabulous makeup and delightful outfits. I transformed into a stunning butterfly, a charming bumblebee, and even a whimsical French clown—though that one might sound a bit odd, it was quite lovely.
In true ’90s fashion, I also made some regrettable choices, like dressing up as a “gypsy.” Yikes. Just typing that makes me cringe, as it perpetuated a harmful stereotype. We should always strive to learn and do better—seriously, what were my parents thinking?
Unfortunately, being plus-size during Halloween took away much of the joy in my teenage years. Costumes simply weren’t accessible for someone of my size. Twenty-five years ago, the options for plus-size attire were limited, and online shopping wasn’t an option either. I couldn’t just stroll into a costume store and grab something that fit. Instead, I convinced myself that I had “outgrown” Halloween and became the designated candy distributor in my family. My “costume” typically consisted of a cat-ear headband paired with my everyday clothes from eighth to twelfth grade.
Today, as a plus-size woman and a mom, I’ve managed to regain some of that Halloween magic. I make an effort to embrace the season for my kids. However, the spooky season still presents its own set of challenges and feelings for those of us navigating it in larger bodies. Let’s take a closer look at some of these issues.
Challenges in Finding Plus-Size Costumes
First off, have you ever tried to find a plus-size Halloween costume? They do exist, but they are often in short supply at stores, and sizing can be utterly confusing. One brand might label a 3X as a 22/24, while another might mark it as a 16/18. And good luck finding anything larger than a 3X—if you finally do, you might need to take out a loan to afford it. The materials used often feel scratchy and cheap, which doesn’t help when you’re trying to feel confident in your outfit.
The Focus on Sexy Costumes
Additionally, many adult costumes for women focus on being sexy, which often translates to skimpy designs. I recently checked one popular costume website, and the only section for plus-size women was for sexy costumes. No other choices! While I fully support anyone rocking their preferred style, costume companies often forget that plus-size bodies come in different shapes and that what’s deemed sexy for straight-sized women may not work for us.
Group Costumes and Social Pressure
Group costumes can also be a source of stress. The embarrassment of trying to coordinate with friends or family when there are hardly any options available for your size can be incredibly frustrating.
Respecting Body Diversity
Moreover, it’s disheartening that fat bodies are often turned into costumes. We all know that dressing up as someone’s culture or using tragic events as a costume is unacceptable. Yet, dressing in a fat suit to impersonate a plus-size character is still considered humorous in some circles. This sends a message that it’s okay to poke fun at our bodies as long as they’re made of fabric and stuffing.
Making Halloween Enjoyable for Everyone
So, how can we make Halloween enjoyable for everyone, regardless of body size?
- Advocate for Inclusive Options: Encourage retailers to offer more inclusive costume options. If they realize we want to buy them, they might start stocking more. Suggest they provide more accessible costumes for those using wheelchairs or other mobility aids, and options that aren’t focused solely on being sexy. Let’s call for more gender-neutral costumes that accommodate larger bodies.
- Plan Group Costumes Thoughtfully: When planning group costumes, ensure that everyone can participate without feeling singled out. You can create fun, clever themes that don’t rely on traditional stereotypes.
- Prohibit Harmful Attributes: Make “fat” a prohibited costume attribute. If you wouldn’t joke about a loved one’s body, don’t use padding to mimic ours for laughs. Kindness costs nothing.
- Choose Better Treats: And let’s be honest: please avoid giving out those black and orange wrapped candies that taste like regret. Opt for treats that everyone will enjoy, regardless of their size.
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Navigating Halloween as a plus-size individual can be challenging due to limited costume options, inappropriate sizing, and societal attitudes. Advocating for more inclusive costume choices, being sensitive about group costumes, and avoiding harmful stereotypes can help make the holiday enjoyable for everyone.
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