Let’s set the scene, moms. It’s the day your little one enters the world. You’re feeling swollen and sore, and your body is about to go through an intense transformation, whether your baby arrives through a cesarean or vaginal delivery.
In that magical moment when your newborn is cradled in your arms, the overwhelming love you feel is unlike anything you could have imagined. All the pain, discomfort, and exhaustion suddenly fade away as you gaze into your baby’s eyes, wishing to imprint this perfect moment in your memory forever.
And then, just like that, you sneeze and realize you might need to do a quick change.
Fast forward one year, and you find yourself celebrating not just your child’s birth but also the remarkable journey of motherhood—complete with balloons, cake, and a whirlwind of festivities. Birthdays are a joyous occasion, and while babies are extraordinary, wouldn’t it be nice for everyone to acknowledge the one who made it all possible?
I adore celebrating my kids’ birthdays. Baking cakes, choosing gifts, adorning their space, and organizing parties—every bit of it brings me joy. While I would give my children the universe if I could, I wouldn’t mind a little nod of appreciation for those nine months spent nurturing them in my womb. After all, that was quite a job!
So, here’s my idea: let’s add a small celebration for every mother’s “You Gave Birth Day.”
No need for elaborate cakes or parties. The spotlight should remain on the birthday child, of course. But imagine if dads took a moment to honor the mother of their child with a card, a bouquet, or even a simple high-five. Acknowledging the intensity of labor and expressing gratitude for what she endured would mean the world.
And as your baby grows into a tiny human capable of scribbling with crayons or uttering a few words, encourage them to thank Mommy for her hard work bringing them into the world and being the champion of all things labor-related.
Now, I can hear some of you rolling your eyes. Is this just another modern demand for recognition? Are you questioning why some voice online is advocating for additional acknowledgments when life is already busy enough? Well, my dear readers, motherhood is a rigorous endeavor. Every mom deserves a medal for making it through each day, and every bit of recognition goes a long way.
Yes, we celebrate Mother’s Day, but I’m not proposing another holiday. Though, honestly, considering the challenges we face, I could make a case for a week or even a month of recognition! A sprinkle of gratitude would be a lovely touch for the one who not only made the birthday possible but is often the driving force behind the celebrations.
Being a mom is often a thankless role, and while we understand that, a little extra appreciation could make all the difference. After all, if she’s willing to give her children the world, what’s a tiny bit of gratitude in return?
This article originally published on July 24, 2017.
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Summary:
This article emphasizes the importance of recognizing and appreciating mothers on their child’s birthday. While celebrating the child is essential, it’s equally important to acknowledge the mother’s hard work and sacrifices, suggesting small gestures of gratitude can make a significant impact.