From the Hermit’s Hideaway: Embracing My Inner Recluse

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These moms are completely unashamed about ditching plans and relishing their time at home.

One of the perks of parenthood is having a ready-made excuse to bow out of almost any obligation. Don’t feel like attending Grandma’s Easter gathering? “Oh no, I’m so sorry, but Aidan is feeling under the weather.” Need to skip a child’s birthday bash? “Oops, the baby is teething, so we won’t be able to make it.”

Then there are those mothers who don’t bother with excuses—they simply aren’t going, and they’ll tell you outright, no hesitation. Some of us just prefer the comfort of our homes, and we’re not sorry about it!

Our confessional is filled with moms who proudly embrace their hermit lifestyle.

“I absolutely love being married to a pilot. We’re both hermits at heart, so it’s ideal for us. I get a month of solitude followed by two weeks packed with fun dates, vacations, and hot romance. I enjoy the peace, the silence, and the time to truly miss him.”

Confessional #25848332: “If I had financial freedom, I would probably live in seclusion, enjoying all the luxuries of life. I really don’t crave constant interaction, but here I am, never alone.”

Confessional #25848295: “I’m 57, my kids are grown, and with my husband retired, I no longer work. Since Covid, I’ve adapted to a hermit lifestyle and honestly, I never want to leave my house anymore. I’m not agoraphobic or depressed; I’m just perfectly content with my hobbies. Socializing is overrated.”

Confessional #25839179: “I crave solitude from everyone, including my husband and kids. I just don’t like being around others!”

Confessional #25830061: “If you were a homebody before 2020, you’re probably a full-blown hermit now. And that’s perfectly fine! Socializing can be exhausting. At first, it feels great, and while it’s essential for overall well-being, after some time, many of us would rather be home in our comfy pants, curled up under a warm blanket on the couch.”

“I sent my daughter to school for the first time in almost a year today. She was thrilled, but I’m petrified. I’ve done my best to prepare her for safety, but I feel like I’ve already failed. Covid has made me a recluse, and I’m scared of ruining her happiness.” (Confessional #25815840)

“I find adults to be incredibly disappointing. I just want to retreat from them all. My tolerance has plummeted this year, and I totally understand why hermits choose their lifestyle.” (Confessional #25801783)

The political climate and the pandemic have revealed the true nature of many people. Our patience with one another is already so limited, so why push it? “I’m deleting all my social media. It’s never been done before, but I’m pretty much a recluse, and that’s my only social outlet. I either need to get outside more or learn to be comfortable with myself.” (Confessional #25796468)

“I’m secretly relieved my kids are old enough to text and call their friends, so I no longer need to manage their social lives. If it were up to me, we’d never leave the house. I’m such an introvert.” (Confessional #25787914)

“I am definitely a hermit! I cancel plans all the time and dread socializing. I worry about how this will affect me as I grow older. Will this mess me up in the future?” (Confessional #25748266)

“Having just had a baby two weeks ago, I’ve been inundated with visitors. The hermit in me is screaming to tell people to go away!” (Confessional #24763505)

A new baby is an ideal reason to let your inner hermit shine! Unless visitors bring food or offer to help clean, it’s perfectly acceptable to send them packing.

“I’ve been feeling lonely working from home and wondering if I should return to a full-time job. I’m in the office this week, and—NOPE. I can’t wait to get back to my lazy mornings, pajamas, and my peaceful home.” (Confessional #23499149)

“I enjoy being a homebody! I’ve created a cozy, welcoming environment for family and friends. I’d much rather host gatherings than go out. I love cooking and making cocktails. Unfortunately, some people judge me negatively and label me a hermit.” (Confessional #20764744)

“We’re renovating our house with lots of DIY projects and nicer finishes. Once it’s all done, I’m not leaving home again. I’ll be a hermit in a beautiful house.” (Confessional #15976889)

“Last night, I was forced to interact socially, and I’m completely wiped out this morning. Motherhood has turned me into a hermit.” (Confessional #8371159)

If you’re a hermit and you’re happy, give a little clap! Seriously, it’s great to see so many women who refuse to feel guilty about being homebodies. Whatever works for you is what matters. If you’re an introvert who gains energy from solitude—embrace it!

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In summary, many moms are unapologetically embracing their inner hermit, especially in the wake of recent global events. They find solace and comfort in their homes, often preferring solitude over social obligations. Whether it’s due to personal preference or newfound happiness in solitude, these moms are redefining what it means to be a homebody.

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