Reflecting on My College Years: A Journey of Self-Discovery

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In college, I was known for my adventurous romantic life. You might have encountered someone like me—the girl who enjoyed casual relationships. I had some short-lived boyfriends, and while I can’t recall the exact number of partners I had, it was definitely around twenty. The number of spontaneous encounters? Let’s just say it was high enough that I lost track. If you’re here to judge, spare me. I had a fantastic time. The only thing I wish is that I had been bold enough to hook up with two close friends I still cherish today. We’ve joked about it since, with one of them saying, “I always thought we would hook up,” echoing our favorite show.

The truth is, I lived in a unique dorm environment filled with fellow misfits—drama enthusiasts, artists, LGBTQ+ individuals, and others who felt out of place in high school. Thankfully, no one shamed me for my choices. Most people were aware of my escapades, and they simply didn’t care. We even created a game where we’d connect dorm residents based on their romantic encounters, reminiscent of the six degrees of Kevin Bacon but with a twist.

Living Life to the Fullest

I was bold enough to take the virginity of four people. Once, during a relationship where I didn’t want to be unfaithful, I cheekily wrote “Too bad I can’t hook up with you” on my boyfriend’s bathroom mirror with soap. There was a birthday party that turned into an orgy, with guests swapping partners. I enjoyed multiple threesomes, though I was frustrated when I found out one of the guys was engaged.

Remember the iconic line from Clerks? When Dante Hicks exclaims, “Try not to suck any dick on your way through the parking lot!”—that was me in spirit. I had one-night stands and relationships, and I even crossed the line with my resident advisor in a classroom. I was definitely living life on my terms.

And you know what? I loved every moment of it.

Grateful for the Experience

Remarkably, I never faced any consequences like STDs or an unintended pregnancy. I was diligent about checking partners’ testing statuses and was proactive with birth control. Over five years (including my first year of grad school), I engaged in countless exhilarating experiences. I wore uniforms from Catholic school, explored toys, and even ventured into bondage. I met friends and strangers alike, and I often think back to that English guy I didn’t hook up with—what a missed opportunity!

Having grown up in a conservative Catholic environment, where sex was vilified, I was ready to embrace my desires once I left that life behind. I sought out open-minded friends who were either as sexually active as I was or wished to be. No one judged me; instead, they joined me in the fun.

Settling Down After My Wild Days

Eventually, I settled down after my exploratory phase when I met my husband during my second year of grad school. We’ve been together ever since, and I’ve never strayed. My past experiences have made me more skilled in the bedroom, and he appreciates that.

What I miss most isn’t necessarily my reckless days but rather the freedom and excitement of my youth. I fondly recall those moments spent in the dorms, trying to connect people through their romantic histories. My youthful escapades were part of a beautiful phase of life, filled with possibility and adventure. Now, I cherish my stable relationship. I’m in love and enjoy the comfort of a deep connection that transcends fleeting encounters. There’s a unique joy in the rhythm of a committed relationship, a thrill in the small moments of understanding and affection.

While my adventurous phase was delightful, I now embrace my life in my forties with gratitude for both experiences.

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In summary, I’ve journeyed from a carefree college life filled with exploration to a loving, committed relationship. Each phase has contributed to who I am today, and I embrace both with open arms.

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