From a Healthcare Provider: You Are the Authority on Your Body—Trust Yourself

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The Institute of Medicine describes patient-centered care as “providing care that is respectful of, and responsive to, individual patient preferences, needs and values, ensuring that patient values guide all clinical decisions.” Even if medical evidence or a provider’s experience leans towards one treatment plan, you may find that the proposed approach doesn’t align with your comfort level or personal healthcare goals. This disparity between a provider’s perspective and a patient’s wishes is especially prevalent during labor and delivery.

Healthcare providers often struggle to maintain objectivity and sensitivity to individual needs, as their training emphasizes certain interventions and guidelines. Discussions surrounding birth preferences—like elective inductions, cesarean sections, labor augmentation, epidurals, and breastfeeding—are increasingly common, yet many women feel their preferences are overshadowed by their providers’ biases.

While it’s true that many women opt for epidurals during labor, I have witnessed the success of women utilizing hypnobirthing and other natural pain management techniques. Similarly, although breastfeeding is widely recommended for its health benefits, it might not be the best choice for every woman, and it’s crucial to respect their decisions and explore alternatives that suit both mother and baby.

Women should trust their instincts and feel confident in their care plans. If you sense that your needs do not align with the proposed treatment, you should feel empowered to voice your concerns. You know your body and values better than anyone else.

Sometimes, advocating for your health means listening to your inner voice—especially when your providers, family, or friends dismiss your symptoms. A recent case illustrates this point: A woman shared her birth experience, revealing her discomfort at discharge. Despite her borderline blood pressure readings not meeting standard criteria, she knew they were abnormal for her. Unfortunately, her concerns were dismissed, and she returned home only to experience a hypertensive emergency days later, requiring intensive medical intervention.

This situation raises important questions about healthcare disparities: Does the person’s background impact their care? In this case, the woman was a young white healthcare provider with excellent insurance, delivered at a top hospital in Manhattan. Yet, even with her qualifications, her instincts were overlooked.

If you ever feel something isn’t right, trust your body. Listen to your intuition, and if you’re uncomfortable with your care plan, speak up. You are your own best advocate. Seek out trusted friends or family to support you in making your voice heard. If you still feel unheard, don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion.

Many women are conditioned by societal expectations to be accommodating, especially during pregnancy and motherhood. However, it’s vital to remember that caring for yourself is essential for your baby’s well-being. When you’re emotionally and physically healthy, your family thrives.

In my training, I witnessed the tragic consequences of not heeding warning signs when a mother succumbed to an amniotic fluid embolism. This rare complication cannot be predicted, but when signs of distress are ignored, the outcomes can be devastating. Always listen to your instincts, stand firm for yourself, and never let anyone dismiss your concerns. You are the expert on your own body!

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Trusting your body and advocating for your health is crucial, especially during pivotal moments like labor and delivery. Don’t hesitate to voice your concerns and seek the care that aligns with your values and needs.

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