From The Confessional: Ignoring Racism in This Country Is Not an Option

If there’s a silver lining to the tumultuous Trump years (and you really have to search for it), it’s that he revealed the deep-rooted racism still embedded in our culture. Personally, I was shocked to discover just how prevalent it remains—two decades into the 21st century. As a white woman, I had the naive belief that society had made significant progress and that the majority of the hate directed towards others based on their ethnicity or skin color was a thing of the past.

Clearly, I was mistaken. I had been enjoying the privileges that my skin color provides, and because racism didn’t directly affect my daily life, I didn’t give it much thought. Now, as a 41-year-old mom of three privileged, white children who have grown up during a Trump presidency, I realize the extent of the work that lies ahead. It falls on us—those of us who can navigate society without the burden of our skin color—to advocate for change, so that all Americans can live freely and without fear, as they rightfully deserve.

So, thanks, Trump… I guess?

This whole situation is infuriating. The racism, the politics, the skyrocketing cost of living, the relentless grind of daily life—everything feels overwhelming. Parenting and depression are taking a toll on me.

One confessional shared, “The idea of reverse racism makes me want to punch a hole through a cinderblock wall.” Another expressed frustration over why some people are determined to keep racism alive, wishing they would “just go away.” Others noted that they need to step back from social media for their mental health, as the mental gymnastics people perform to justify their racism is maddening.

If you’re enraged by the overt racism you’ve witnessed, especially in recent years, that’s a good thing. We share that anger. It’s time to take action.

Since my in-laws became obsessed with Trump and guns, thanks to news outlets, I’ve distanced myself from them. They seem comfortable ignoring racism? No thanks. One confessional lamented, “I have experienced more racism in four years than in two decades. I am done with Trump and his supporters.”

A woman of color shared her experience facing harassment in her affluent suburban neighborhood, stating, “Racism isn’t just a rural issue; it’s present in our own communities.” Another lamented the influence of charismatic Christianity, which she believes enables racism and sexism in her home state.

Unfortunately, we’ll be feeling the “Trump effect” for years to come, but perhaps this is a necessary wake-up call. It’s a reminder that we are far from finished with the fight for civil rights. The reality is that Black and brown Americans experience a vastly different America compared to their white counterparts. While we all breathed a sigh of relief when he was not re-elected, the truths his presidency brought to light must still be addressed.

As a professional in a predominantly white community, I notice the subtle forms of racism when my children’s achievements receive more attention than those of their white peers. It’s patronizing and tokenizing.

I’m exhausted from this culture filled with sickness and racism. As a mother, I want a better future for my children, so we must do our part to create that future.

Many of us have come to realize that our parents hold prejudiced views, which can be gut-wrenching. A confession read, “My white boyfriend doesn’t see racism or sexism, and I have to discuss these issues with our biracial kids.” Another person expressed a desire to escape to a more progressive place, stating, “Living in a conservative area ruled by racism and patriarchy is frustrating.”

As a woman of color, I often wish I hadn’t married a white man, as explaining racism to him while knowing our children will face it is exhausting.

Many neighbors and family members choose to ignore this issue, but avoiding it makes us just as responsible as those who actively promote racism. The rise of Trumpism in the U.S. will remain a dark chapter in our history, but it has also laid bare truths many were unaware of. We can talk about the progress made during the Civil Rights Movement, but the reality is that we still live in a society that mirrors the past.

Now, it seems that leaders are attempting to erase critical discussions about racism’s impact on our society, which should concern everyone. Turning away from this issue won’t make it disappear. Pretending racism doesn’t exist or hiding behind religion to justify it is unacceptable. All our children deserve a brighter future.

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In summary, the current climate in America has forced many of us to confront the persistent issue of racism that we can no longer ignore. As we navigate these challenges, it’s essential to advocate for a society where every child can thrive, free from the burdens of prejudice.

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