A recent post by popular blogger and YouTube star, Sarah Thompson, has resonated deeply with many readers, particularly working mothers. In her heartfelt Facebook update, Sarah shares an emotional story from her past that highlights the challenges of juggling work and motherhood.
Once a mother of three struggling to make ends meet, Sarah recalls a time when she was working multiple part-time jobs, including waitressing. She candidly describes herself as “pitiful and struggling in every way possible,” yet she felt compelled to mask her feelings. “I didn’t want to bring my pitifulness to work, so I would show up to each shift with a fake smile on my face (which is EXHAUSTING; faking is so ridiculously exhausting!),” she shares.
The emotional toll of pretending to be happy took a significant toll on her. After each shift, she would order the restaurant’s signature flatbread at a 50% employee discount and eat it alone in her car, often in tears. “The flatbread became my grieving buddy, my comfort food. And by the time I pulled up to my little apartment, there were only a few bites left, always soaked in my tears,” she writes.
Fast forward to a recent dinner with a friend at that same restaurant, where she ordered her “grieving buddy” again. This time, however, the experience was vastly different. “Because life is no longer pitiful,” she confidently states.
In her post, Sarah reaches out to those who may feel trapped in their circumstances, sharing a powerful message of hope: “If you’re sobbing alone in your car, it’s not permanent. I know it feels like it is in the moment. I know it hurts and sucks, and I know you feel stuck. But you’re not. Hold on, but don’t hold still. Keep moving forward. Baby steps toward a new chapter of your story and a non-fake smile. You’ll get there.”
Her words have struck a chord with many, inspiring a flood of comments from others who relate to her struggles. “This literally was me last night, crying alone in my car as everything around me is falling apart. This life definitely has not been an easy one, but I’m still hopeful,” one reader wrote. Another shared, “Thank you for your reality. I used to eat the free popcorn that my company provided for lunch. Single moms do extraordinary things to survive.”
Others offered encouragement, sharing their own stories of perseverance. “I’m a single mom. I’ve been through hell like you. But all of that was just temporary. Be strong. It’s the only option for us. And eventually, things will get better,” a reader chimed in.
The honesty and relatability of Sarah’s story provide comfort to many, reinforcing the notion that they are not alone in their struggles. For additional insights on home insemination and related topics, check out this excellent resource on treating infertility from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, as well as our post on the at-home insemination kit.
In summary, Sarah’s post serves as a reminder that tough times don’t last, but resilient individuals do. Take heart and keep moving forward; brighter days are ahead.