The Excitement of Hunting for Deals in Facebook B/S/T Groups

I promise you, I only wanted to give it a try. I had no plans to become addicted. But once I got a taste, there was no turning back. Remember that song by The Killers? It started with a dress for my daughter, and I couldn’t believe how much it spiraled out of control.

Allow me to share my journey. It all began when a friend suggested I check out Facebook for a “BST” page while searching for a school picture dress for my daughter. A BST page? A buy, sell, trade group, where people can swap items like clothes, shoes, toys, and more. Intrigued, I looked up the brand I had in mind and found a plethora of BST pages—ones for adults, kids, specific sizes, and even for items under $50. I clicked the “join” button, and that was the moment everything changed.

Once I gained access, I was overwhelmed by the sheer volume of information. Each group has its own set of rules, and believe me, you don’t want to break them. A public reprimand can be embarrassing, getting muted for 24 hours is just plain annoying, and being kicked out? That’s the ultimate punishment. I was terrified but determined to find that dress.

Understanding the Shopping Process

Shopping in these groups is fairly straightforward. Sellers post pictures—often collages—of items they’re offering. In the comments, they detail the size and condition. And oh, the conditions! They have their own language:

NWT: New With Tags
NWOT: New Without Tags
EUC: Excellent Used Condition
VGUC: Very Good Used Condition
GUC: Good Used Condition
Play: OK Condition, worn multiple times
ISO: In Search Of; a way to post what you want
DOND: Deal or No Deal; where you propose a price after seeing an item

Once you’re familiar with the lingo, you can jump in. If you see an item you like, you comment with your PayPal email. The first person to comment gets the item—fair enough, right? But be wary of those fast fingers; once you comment, you’re committed to the purchase—no backing out! And don’t even think about “dirty deleting” (DD), which means you second-guess your purchase and try to erase your comment. Trust me, people will notice, and you’ll be called out in front of everyone.

After committing to buy, you need to pay promptly. If you don’t pay within the specified time, you could face public shaming or even get booted from the group. Sellers, if you don’t ship quickly, expect the same treatment.

If you ghost someone, you risk landing in the “buyer beware” group, a dreaded place where your name can get linked to negative experiences. It’s like a public shaming that no one wants to face—imagine being ostracized like a character from a dramatic TV show. Most of the time, if you end up there, you probably deserve it. But if it’s a mistake, you better have a good defense ready because the members won’t be easy on you.

The Thrill of the Hunt

Now that you know the ropes, you’re ready to dive into the hunt. Grab your favorite drink, turn on a show, and start browsing. I particularly love the designs of one brand, and I’m always on the lookout for their unique prints. Some items are so rare they’re considered “unicorns” or “Holy Grails” and can be quite pricey. I often browse casually, but the real thrill comes during a “live purge”—when members sell multiple items quickly. My heart races as I wait for the perfect piece to appear. I type out “sold” and my email as fast as I can. Sometimes I don’t even check how much I’m spending, knowing I’ll have to explain later why I “needed” yet another romper.

The excitement doesn’t end with the boards. Many groups have chat rooms where members share pictures, ask for advice on sizes, and showcase their latest finds. It’s a supportive community where women uplift each other through their shared love of fashion.

I’m in these groups every single day. While I don’t buy something every time, I’m always on the lookout. I’ve even started selling my items and am amazed by how quickly they go. There are countless women like me, glued to their phones, waiting for the perfect find. Sometimes, I have to lie about what I’m doing when I should be cooking dinner. “Oh, just wrapping up some work,” I say, but really, I’m on the hunt for that dress I saw earlier.

I’m not just limited to clothing groups. I’m part of a doll group, and let me tell you, the beach bag fanatics are wild! They spend outrageous amounts on bags made from Crocs—it’s insane! Yet, I’ve joined the frenzy and bought one myself. My name is Jamie, and I’m a total impulsive buyer who dives into things without a second thought. I purchased my daughter’s dress on my very first night in these groups, and that was two years ago.

I can hardly remember life before BST groups, and honestly, I don’t want to. I find more joy sitting on my phone at 1 a.m., live shopping someone’s purge on Facebook, than I ever did shopping at a regular store. It’s the thrill of the chase that keeps me going.

I should probably wrap this up, but I’m distracted by a new purge that’s just starting—there are some great items I’ve got my eye on.

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In summary, my journey into Facebook buy, sell, trade groups has turned into a thrilling obsession. The excitement of hunting for unique items and the community of like-minded individuals make it an exhilarating experience. From finding that perfect dress to navigating the complexities of group rules, every moment is filled with anticipation.

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