There’s nothing quite like discussing sensitive topics related to sex with your children to make everyone involved—yes, even the family pet—want to flee the premises. While it’s essential to provide them with accurate information and help them understand their bodies, these conversations often lead to moments of significant discomfort. However, one discussion can eclipse even the most cringeworthy sex talk: the conversation about masturbation.
In a revealing video from Cut, parents bravely tackle this often-awkward subject with their kids, engaging in candid and necessary dialogues. One mother starts the conversation with a straightforward explanation: “When you touch your privates in different ways to make yourself feel good…” It’s commendable, really, as many parents find themselves stammering through these discussions. I remember when my son, Leo, innocently asked me about his anatomy at the beach; in a panic, I referred to it as his “funny bone.” He’s 14 now and thankfully knows better, so I hope I’m not alone in that embarrassment.
Another part of the video features a father who mentions the phrase, “Some people say ‘choking the chicken’” when discussing male masturbation. His son’s response is priceless: “I’ve never heard that, but it’s also very rude to chickens.” This kid’s wit is a refreshing take on a delicate topic. He later reacts to seeing a dildo, exclaiming, “That is big; that’s huge. It’s not going to fit.” Honestly, his honesty might just win him the title of the best response ever.
While some children squirm and giggle, it’s evident that they’re engaged and curious about the conversation. Many have already explored the topic themselves and feel relieved that their parents are open about it too. Kids are eager to learn; if we don’t educate them about their bodies, someone else will—and that could lead to feelings of shame around a perfectly natural action.
Though some parents may shy away from discussing masturbation due to its taboo nature, it’s crucial to recognize that most children will engage in this behavior at some point. It is a normal, healthy aspect of human sexuality. For these parents, at least their children understand that they can approach them with questions down the line, fostering a loving, open environment.
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In summary, while the conversation around masturbation may be uncomfortable, it is essential for children to learn about their bodies in a supportive environment. Parents who take the plunge into these discussions pave the way for healthier attitudes toward sexuality in their children.