Parenting Advice: A Reader’s Dilemma
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This week, we tackle a common concern: What should you do when other moms approach you at the park, but you’re not looking to make ‘mom friends’?
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Summer is here, and that means my kids and I are spending a lot of time at the park. I have two children, aged 4 and 6, and we live just a couple of blocks from our local playground. I enjoy watching them play since they’re now at an age where I don’t have to constantly supervise them. I also appreciate the chance to sit on a bench with my book. However, many moms seem eager to socialize, and that’s not my cup of tea. While I don’t mind a polite nod or smile, I’m not interested in lengthy chats while the kids play. I’m content with my current friendships and have no interest in multi-level marketing. I prefer to read quietly and check in on my kids occasionally. Yet, these moms never seem to take the hint. Am I supposed to be rude, or is there another way to handle this?
Response:
Ah, the longing for a peaceful moment at the park while your kids enjoy their freedom! That’s a cherished part of motherhood, and you deserve it. You certainly don’t need to be rude, but a straightforward (yet courteous) approach might be necessary. It’s important to remember that motherhood can feel isolating, so other moms might just be looking for a friendly connection. Here’s a suggestion for a gentle yet firm response: “I’m really engrossed in this book, so if you don’t mind, I’ll be enjoying my reading while watching the kids.”
Sometimes, when mothers see kids playing well together, they see an opportunity to strike up a conversation, potentially leading to playdates. While this is perfectly fine, if that’s not what you want, it’s okay to assert your need for solitude. You don’t owe anyone your time at that moment. For more insights on this subject, check out this post from our other blog here, and if you’re interested in learning more about home insemination, you can find valuable information at Make a Mom. Another excellent resource for understanding fertility treatments is ACOG.
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In summary, it’s perfectly acceptable to cherish your personal space at the park. You can be polite without feeling obligated to engage in lengthy conversations. Enjoy your reading time!
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