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I got vaccinated early on. Living in a part of the Deep South felt like being in a failed state, but I managed to snag an extra dose because it was about to expire. A lovely nurse named Sarah made me promise to keep it quiet so they wouldn’t be overwhelmed, and I’m forever grateful to her. Now, vaccines are available at the local mall, and those who want it have received it. The pandemic has taken its toll, and I’ve reached a point where I ask people about their vaccination status.
No, it’s not impolite. No, it’s not an invasion of privacy. And I’m certainly not going to stop.
Because We Just Endured A Global Pandemic
Do you remember the staggering loss of life? We lost more Americans to COVID-19 than in all of World War II. The death toll from the pandemic comes close to matching the casualties of World War II, the Korean War, and the Vietnam War combined. We’ve lost more lives than the total number of soldiers in the Civil War. Do you recall the isolation we all faced to prevent deaths?
I vividly remember. So yes, if we’re in the same space, I’m going to ask if you’re vaccinated. It doesn’t matter if you’re my friend, my doctor, my hairstylist, or even my pet’s veterinarian. I don’t mind that I’m already vaccinated. The CDC has made it clear that “no vaccines are 100% effective” and that “variants will cause some vaccine breakthrough cases.”
Another Reason I’m Asking About Vaccine Status
While my vaccine is highly effective, there’s still a small chance I could catch COVID-19. After spending over a year isolating with my three kids to avoid the virus, I won’t take risks now. When an unmasked server comes to my table, I will politely ask, “Have you been vaccinated?” It’s not rude; it’s just common sense. I didn’t endure a year of isolation only to let my guard down now.
I could list all the events I missed, but those who adhered to CDC guidelines experienced the same losses. I need to know your vaccine status to ensure I didn’t waste all that time in isolation. I took precautions for a reason, and I won’t jeopardize my health post-vaccination.
Moreover, As A Parent, I Need To Know
I understand I need to eventually let my kids go without masks, but that day isn’t today, tomorrow, or anytime soon. They’re still masked, even outdoors, because I can’t be sure if your child has been exposed to unvaccinated individuals. If your child is maskless and plays with mine, I will be asking about your vaccination status.
If you or your partner are unvaccinated, don’t be surprised if my kids leave the area. In my state, anyone wanting the vaccine has had access to it for quite some time. I’m concerned about their safety. I’ve been a protective mother for over a year now, and that won’t change. If you’re unvaccinated, you could expose my children to COVID-19. I didn’t keep them away from others for so long to have them get sick now.
Asking About Vaccine Status Isn’t Rude or Intrusive
When I ask about your vaccination status, it’s not an act of rudeness. I ask respectfully, and if the answer is no, I’ll take appropriate action, whether that’s requesting you to wear a mask or choosing to leave. I do this kindly, even if I’m internally judging you for not considering the health of others.
Inquiring about vaccine status is not an invasion of privacy. I have the right to know if those I interact with pose a health risk. Everyone, regardless of political affiliation, has the right to prioritize their health. If you’re providing a service and are unvaccinated, I reserve the right to seek service elsewhere.
If you prefer not to disclose your vaccination status, feel free to say, “I’d rather not discuss it.” I may assume you haven’t been vaccinated and choose to leave, but that’s a risk you take if you view my question as an invasion. I’m not prying into your personal life; I’m merely asking about your vaccination.
People who have been vaccinated usually don’t mind sharing that information. So, calm down. I’m going to keep asking about vaccination status, and you should, too. You have the right to inquire for your safety and the safety of those you care about.
Get vaccinated, wear a mask, ask about vaccine status, and make sure to stay hydrated and well-rested. You deserve it.
This article was originally published on June 11, 2021.