To the author of yet another open letter chastising parents for allowing their children to use iPads in restaurants:
I truly wonder why these letters keep appearing online. This isn’t a groundbreaking topic; it’s been addressed time and time again without any fresh insights. Rather than rehash the same points, I’d like to ask you, respectfully, to focus on your own family and perhaps show a little kindness. Your letter served not as a guide for parents but as a platform for you to showcase your own parenting prowess while criticizing others. Congratulations on your ability to type out your judgmental thoughts while clutching tightly to your ideals.
Now, let’s dive into your list of reasons why parents shouldn’t rely on modern technology for a moment of peace at a bustling restaurant like Chili’s.
“Your children want your attention.”
Let’s be honest: if given the choice, my kids would trade me for a tablet with unlimited data in a heartbeat. Yes, they appreciate my company, but they also adore binge-watching their favorite shows. I cherish the moments of watching them leap off the jungle gym, but I also value the occasional adult conversation over dinner without the constant interruptions of sibling squabbles. Taking a break from parenting for just 35 minutes is not only acceptable; it’s essential for our sanity.
“You’re going to lose their attention.”
Just because my kids may not be interested in me during their teenage years doesn’t mean I need to devote every second of their early years to them. If I hover over them endlessly, they’re likely to be just as eager to distance themselves when they hit adolescence. There’s a balance to be struck, and it’s crucial for both our well-being and theirs.
“You’re failing to teach the art of conversation.”
Your limited view of that family enjoying their meal does not accurately represent their day-to-day interactions. I bet they engage in meaningful conversations and enjoy quality time together outside of dining out. Regardless of how they choose to spend their mealtime, it’s none of your business.
“You’re setting terrible examples.”
And frankly, you’re acting a bit self-righteous. Suggesting that parents relaxing with an iPad will lead to their children becoming detached is disingenuous. A true terrible example is one where you teach your children that it’s acceptable to look down on others for their choices.
“It’s annoying to patrons.”
You know what else can be bothersome in a restaurant? Kids. They can be loud, messy, and unpredictable. For every rant about iPads at the table, there’s another about parents who dare to bring their children out in public. The condescending attitude you take when suggesting device-free dinners sounds like you’ve forgotten the realities of parenting.
If I see a family out enjoying dinner with their kids watching a show, my response will be a supportive thumbs-up for taking a moment for themselves. Not every family has the luxury of a babysitter, and if an iPad at the table is the worst a stranger can criticize, they’re doing better than many.
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In summary, let’s focus on supporting one another rather than casting judgment. Parenting is challenging enough without the added scrutiny from others.