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To the mother who never had the chance to enjoy a typical childhood, I see you. I recognize the pain you face daily as you navigate parenthood, continually reminded of the mistreatment and trauma inflicted by those who were meant to care for you. Your heart breaks for all the moments you missed or had taken from you during what should have been your formative years.
You need to hear this:
You did not deserve the neglect, abuse, or any of the hurt you endured. None of it was your fault. It was the responsibility of your caregivers to provide a loving and safe environment for you, and they failed.
But you have not failed. You need to hold that truth deep within you. Look at what you are doing now — you are determined to break the cycle of abuse. Each day, you consciously choose to create a better life for your children and yourself.
Every time you reassure your children of your love, ensuring they don’t wonder what they must do to earn it, you are taking a stand. When your child feels secure enough to approach you after making a mistake, rather than hiding in fear, you are making a difference. Each moment spent cheering them on at their activities or cuddling on the couch sends the message that you not only love them, but you appreciate them as individuals.
When you acknowledge and take responsibility for your parenting missteps, clarifying that your emotional well-being is not their burden, you are breaking the cycle. By setting boundaries to protect your children from those who do not respect them, you show them what true love looks like. Seeking support for yourself further helps in your journey, reminding you that you are worthy of growth.
I see your struggles; I recognize the exhaustion you feel. You battle daily against the negative thoughts from your past, striving to create a loving environment for your children. Keep moving forward. Build the life your children deserve — a life you missed out on. But also take the time to acknowledge how your children will never know the pain you experienced.
Be proud of the parent you have chosen to be. Your children are fortunate to have you as their mother. Remember to love yourself with the same intensity you have for them. You are deserving of love and compassion, especially from yourself.
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