Our Recent Drive-Thru Experience Left Me Frustrated

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Every Friday, I treat my seven-year-old daughter to a donut. It’s one of those little joys we cling to as we navigate the chaos of the past year. She eagerly counts down the days until her sweet reward, cheering her up after a week of pandemic schooling where social interaction is a distant memory.

Last Wednesday, even though she was on spring break, the excitement began: “Only two more days until my donut!” Even during other activities, she would muse about whether to get sprinkles.

So, on a sunny yet unexpectedly chilly April afternoon, we found ourselves in a long line at a donut shop a bit farther from home, mainly because it had a drive-thru. I needed a distraction from the week’s stresses.

It had been a challenging week; in fact, the entire year has felt overwhelmingly heavy with fatigue and tedium. This week, however, a new feeling crept in—frustration. My daughter had just come home from school, exuberantly sharing stories of her classmates traveling to California or going on Disney cruises. Meanwhile, we were stuck at home due to my unvaccinated status, following CDC recommendations to avoid travel.

Our spring break consisted of days spent in our driveway and living room, trying to make the most of limited options. I juggled work while my daughter entertained herself with YouTube. We played spies, practiced bike riding, and created culinary masterpieces inspired by random themes, which typically ended with a big mess for me to clean.

While some of that sounds fun, after 13 months of being my child’s main source of entertainment, the pressure to keep things lively was exhausting. I limited my social media use to avoid feelings of envy as I scrolled through pictures of friends traveling or enjoying family gatherings.

Then came the moment that pushed me over the edge. After waiting in the drive-thru for what felt like an eternity, we finally reached the window. Just as my daughter pointed out, the young employee who handed over our donut was not wearing a mask. I was taken aback. After so long without seeing a stranger’s face, I didn’t know how to react. I quickly grabbed the donut, tossed it into the front seat, and told my daughter she couldn’t eat it.

I was aware that the risk of surface transmission is low, but I was furious. We drove 15 minutes to a local donut shop without a drive-thru, dodging indoor diners to get her treat (sans sprinkles).

There’s so much to be angry about these days. It frustrates me when people disregard COVID precautions. As we’re nearing the end of this ordeal, every act of negligence feels like a setback for everyone. I yearn for the freedom to travel and socialize, but every unmasked person makes that wait feel endless, much like being stuck in a never-ending drive-thru line.

According to recent reports, our area is considered at “very high risk” for COVID-19, which underscores the importance of staying cautious. During the time we were at home, the reality of ongoing deaths from COVID still loomed large.

I’ve spoken with others who share my feelings of anger toward those who break the rules. One fellow parent, also unvaccinated and home for spring break, expressed her frustration after hearing about co-workers who traveled abroad.

In the meantime, I hope everyone enjoyed their vacations. If you weren’t vaccinated and traveled somewhere exciting, please spare me the details.

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Summary

The drive-thru experience at a local donut shop turned sour when the employee failed to wear a mask, igniting feelings of frustration in a mother who had already been feeling the weight of the pandemic. As families travel and gather, she grapples with the challenges of staying home and keeping her daughter entertained while longing for the freedom that feels just out of reach.

Keyphrase: Frustration with COVID rule-breakers

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