If You’re Experiencing ‘The Witching Hour,’ Perimenopause May Be to Blame

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I never had any issues with sleep until I entered my 40s. Back in college, my roommate would often have to shake me awake during fire drills because I was such a deep sleeper that even the loud alarms couldn’t rouse me. My need for sleep has always been significant; my baby book even notes that I slept for eight straight hours my first night home from the hospital.

During high school, I didn’t share the same desire to stay up late as my three teenagers do. I’d find myself dozing off on the couch by eight o’clock, only to head to bed after waking up. Even after having kids, I had no trouble falling back asleep, regardless of a baby crying for food, a drink, or scared from a nightmare.

However, my early forties changed all that, stripping me of my ability to quickly fall into a deep sleep. I felt exhausted throughout the day, yet my mind would race at night. I’ve tried everything—melatonin (which resulted in nightmares), sleeping pills, calming apps, and more recently, a combination of magnesium vitamins and lavender essential oil (which seems to be the most effective).

This past year, I’ve faced a new challenge in my sleep routine: the witching hour. This term refers to waking up in the middle of the night and being unable to return to sleep, or waking up multiple times. Initially, I thought it was related to bathroom breaks followed by checking my phone for the time, something I had done without issue before. To combat this, I started leaving my phone downstairs, but the problem persisted.

I also attempted to stop drinking fluids after 6:30 p.m., hoping that avoiding bathroom trips at 1:15 a.m. would help me stay asleep. Unfortunately, that didn’t work either, as I continued to wake up without the ability to drift back into deep sleep. If you’re experiencing this too, you understand how exhausting it can be. I often feel fatigued during the day, irritable, and just off-balance.

I consulted with Dr. James Blake, a specialist in Obstetrics and Gynecology, who notes that hormonal fluctuations during perimenopause can lead to night sweats and sleep disturbances. He emphasizes that this decade (ages 40 to 50) can significantly impact mental health, causing increased anxiety and depression, which further affects sleep quality. Many of my friends in their 40s echo this sentiment, suggesting that hormonal changes coupled with life transitions—like watching our children grow—can leave us feeling unsettled.

I can genuinely say that nearly every woman I know in her 40s is facing some sleep issues. So, what can be done? I’m eager for solutions since sleep is vital for our overall well-being. Dr. Blake mentions that there are ongoing studies looking into non-hormonal medications for hot flashes, along with cognitive behavioral therapy which could provide relief. However, treatment should be personalized, considering individual symptoms and medical history.

Additionally, I spoke with Dr. Emily Carter, Chief Medical Officer at Home Insemination Solutions, who shared practical tips to improve sleep. First, ensure your bedroom is at a comfortable temperature. “A cool room, moisture-wicking sleepwear, a cozy mattress, and no screen time before bed can work wonders,” she advises. She also suggests moderating fluid intake in the evening.

Last summer, I invested in bamboo sheets, which have made a noticeable difference in my comfort. I’ve also found that lowering the thermostat during winter helps me sleep better, even if my partner prefers a warmer room. The person experiencing sleep disturbances should prioritize their comfort.

Dr. Carter also recommends a diet that is naturally low on the glycemic index, like the Mediterranean diet. “Minimizing carbs, processed foods, and sugar can stabilize glucose and insulin levels, which may help reduce hot flashes,” she explains. While I don’t follow a strict diet, I do try to limit processed sugars and flours, recognizing that indulging in sweets can disrupt my sleep.

If you’re tossing and turning at night, it’s no fun—I understand. I hope these suggestions help you achieve a more restful night. If you continue to struggle, don’t hesitate to reach out to your gynecologist to discuss potential options. For further insights, check out this blog post on sleep issues.

In summary, sleep disturbances during perimenopause can be frustrating, but understanding the underlying hormonal changes and making small adjustments to our lifestyle and environment can lead to improvements. For more information on fertility and home insemination, visit this resource or check out this excellent resource.

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