March 1, 2021
As we navigate the post-winter break period, many students find it challenging to transition back into the school routine. This time of year can be particularly tough on kids for various reasons. After the lengthy winter break, which is the second largest break of the year following summer vacation, students often return to a whirlwind of activity before another break in early spring. This interruption disrupts what I refer to as “social momentum.” Social momentum occurs when kids frequently interact with friends, creating light-hearted memories that prevent minor conflicts from feeling overwhelming. When this momentum is interrupted by time off, it takes time to rebuild, often leading to awkwardness in social interactions.
This year, the challenges are even greater. Whether returning to in-person classes with masks and social distancing, attending virtual classes, or adapting to unexpected homeschooling situations, children are facing significant social and emotional strains. Many families are experiencing changes in jobs, relocations, or health issues, which further complicates the situation. Every day feels uncertain.
With this backdrop, kids of all ages are dealing with an increased number of transitions – both minor, like switching activities, and major, such as returning to school. Reactions to these transitions can vary widely. Some children may become irritable or grouchy, while others may feel anxious or overly sensitive, interpreting social cues as unkind or unfair. This heightened emotional state often leads to increased communication with teachers and parents about social challenges, especially surrounding school breaks.
Supporting Children Through Transitions
So, what can we do as adults to help our children navigate these transitional behaviors? While we cannot entirely prevent these feelings, we can foster open discussions with our children about their experiences. This dialogue can aid in their understanding and coping mechanisms. Here are some useful phrases and questions you might consider, both for proactive conversations and in response to specific situations. Feel free to adapt these suggestions to fit your family’s unique dynamics.
- Your friends might be feeling more overwhelmed than usual.
- Remember that during times of transition, people can act in unexpected ways.
- Take a deep breath and remain calm, even if someone else is reacting strongly. You can help deescalate the situation by staying composed.
- If a friend is acting in a way that bothers you, pause and ask yourself: Is this person usually unkind? If yes, speak to an adult. If no, try to let it go. (After expressing your feelings, of course; your feelings matter too.)
- Strive to be your kindest self while we all readjust to routines. Things will feel smoother once this transition passes, and you can approach friendships with a fresh perspective.
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Summary
Returning to school after winter break can be tough for kids, especially during these uncertain times. The disruption of social momentum can lead to emotional challenges. By facilitating open conversations about transitions and encouraging calm reactions, adults can support children in navigating these difficulties. Emphasizing kindness and self-awareness is crucial during this period of adjustment.
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