Recently, I took a drive with my partner, Emma. Just the two of us, we ventured down a dirt road close to home. As night fell, we parked to soak in the view of the city lights. We talked about our kids, the pandemic, the vaccine, and simply enjoyed each other’s company. I realized that after 16 years of marriage, we hadn’t taken a moment like this since before our children arrived.
It’s not that we didn’t want to. We have three kids, with our oldest nearing 14. For years, it was a whirlwind of college, multiple jobs, and countless activities. We were always rushing from one obligation to another, whether it was sports, church events, or school projects.
However, the pandemic has stripped away much of that busyness. While I still juggle two jobs, both Emma and I work from home, and the kids are learning online. The chaos of life has subsided, allowing us to take leisurely drives together a couple of times a week and enjoy the serenity of city lights.
I’ve also been spending more quality time with the kids. Instead of splitting our evenings between various activities, we gather at home for family movie nights or board games. This summer, we even roasted marshmallows in our backyard and took a beach trip where we walked along the shore. Just before Christmas, I took the kids sledding for the first time, a memory we’ve missed out on despite living only 45 minutes from snow.
While I deeply wish the pandemic hadn’t occurred—given the pain, loss, and uncertainty it brought—I’ve come to appreciate a silver lining. The hustle and bustle of raising kids has slowed down, making me realize how I had been rushing to maximize their childhood experiences without fully enjoying the simple moments of being together.
Once the pandemic is behind us and life returns to a semblance of normalcy, I intend to make changes. I want to reduce our children’s schedules, even if opportunities arise for more activities. I plan to be less involved in various commitments and prioritize the joy of simply being together. I want to cherish ordinary moments, like driving with Emma and taking in the night view—conversations filled with laughter and connection.
The pandemic has taught me that life is fleeting, and time spent with family should focus on quality rather than quantity of activities.
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Summary
The pandemic has reshaped perspectives on family time. Emphasizing quality over quantity, I plan to simplify our lives post-pandemic, prioritizing shared experiences over a packed schedule. It’s a lesson in cherishing every moment.
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