Growing up, I inherited a handful of quirks from my mother: my knack for rolling my eyes at nonsense, an aversion to lateness, and a love for cozy mystery novels. But the most notable trait? My wild, curly hair.
People often rave about curls, claiming that women spend significant money to achieve the voluminous look I was born with. However, I think the trend shifted when the ’80s concluded—big, bold hair seemed to lose its charm. As a child, my curls often led to unfortunate school photos, particularly due to the limited array of hair products available to tame the frizz. Though I’ve learned to embrace my curls, there were many days I wished for the simplicity of straight hair.
For moms like me, curly hair brings its own set of challenges. With toddlers demanding attention and infants needing care, there’s hardly time to style those unruly locks. More often than not, my trusty baseball cap has become my go-to accessory. If you’re a fellow curly-haired mom, I raise my bottle of conditioner to you in solidarity.
- Mom Bedhead Hits Different with Curls.
The first year of motherhood left me looking like I rolled out of a horror movie. Late-night showers and sleeping with damp hair are a disaster for anyone with curls. One morning, when my partner quipped, “What’s going on up there, Einstein?” I realized my hair situation had reached critical levels. - Short Haircuts Are Out of the Question.
Curly hair reacts fiercely to humidity—more moisture means a fluffier mane. When contemplating a short haircut for the sake of saving time, you quickly learn that shorter styles can escalate your morning chaos. Long hair offers the luxury of a quick ponytail or bun option, which is a lifesaver for busy moms. - Hair Products Take a Backseat to Diapers.
I’ve been loyal to my hairstylist for years, and she knows how to manage my curls like a pro. But when kids come into the picture, diaper expenses can quickly overshadow the need for high-quality hair products. Unfortunately, those luxurious creams and gels are often the first to go, leaving me to navigate the world with chaotic hair while my children enjoy the comfort of their diapers. - Weather and Curls Are No Friends.
As a mom, outdoor activities are part of the daily routine. Whether it’s baking under the sun at a soccer game or getting drenched in the rain, curly-haired moms face endless bad hair days. I suspect Mother Nature has straight hair. I know moms who’ve opted for baseball caps for years just to avoid the struggle against humidity. - Your Little Ones Might Share Those Curls, Making Hair Care a Battle.
Detangling sprays have improved significantly, but no product can fully ease the meltdowns that come with taming a toddler’s curly hair. Sorry, kid—tangles are a rite of passage. Hold still while I get this brush through!
While my curly hair can be a hassle, I often find myself envying those who can wake up with manageable hair. However, on those serendipitous days when the humidity is just right and I have a few extra minutes to style, I appreciate the unique flair my curls bring. Plus, they remind me of my mother, which always brings a smile.
So, to all the straight-haired moms out there, the next time you mention wanting my curls, just know I might have to give you a gentle nudge with my flat iron!
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