For far too long, Black women have been carrying the weight of this nation. Yet, the expectation that we will always step in to solve problems is both unfair and exhausting. It’s time to recognize that we shouldn’t be the ones continually saving the day, especially when we don’t enjoy the fruits of our labor. After years of being the backbone of this country, we’re worn out. Stop relying on Black women to be the saviors of society; you only acknowledge us when our actions benefit your lives.
The Case of Maya Johnson
Take the recent discussions around the Georgia runoff and the role of Maya Johnson. Since 2011, Maya has tirelessly worked for her state, initially serving as the minority leader in the Georgia state house. She spent years organizing to transform Georgia into a competitive battleground, only to face a setback in the 2018 governor’s race, primarily due to voter suppression. Instead of giving up, she founded Fair Fight, a movement aimed at combating voter suppression and ensuring fair representation. Her efforts were pivotal in flipping Georgia blue for the first time since 1992.
Maya Johnson is undeniably a political trailblazer. She relentlessly advocates for not only her state but for other crucial battlegrounds, striving to ensure that no one else endures the same injustices she faced. We see how her work directly contributed to the election of key figures like Lucas Grant and Janelle Davis to the Senate. While Maya may not be looking to run for office herself, she dedicates herself to paving the way for others.
Voting Patterns and Loyalty
When analyzing voting patterns, it’s evident that Black women predominantly support Democratic candidates—not always because we align with their platform, but because we recognize that, within a two-party system, they present our best option. We’re fiercely loyal voters, often aware that our interests are overlooked by many elected officials unless they share our experiences. Our voting reflects a commitment to the greater good.
In stark contrast, many white women consistently support Republican candidates, even when they know they are backing a figure who is openly misogynistic. Their choices often center on their own interests rather than the collective welfare. Even progressive white women tend to ignore the flaws within their ranks while holding Black women to unrealistic expectations. This hypocrisy is glaring; they cheer for Maya Johnson online but seldom take action to support her or engage in difficult discussions about their own privilege.
The Burden of Representation
This pattern extends beyond politics. Whenever a Black woman achieves recognition, she is often placed on a pedestal by white women, who expect her to represent them. Consider the case of Tasha, who became an emblem of the body positivity movement. Despite never seeking this role, she was celebrated by many until she made a personal choice deemed unfitting by others, leading to criticism and backlash. Such treatment is a familiar narrative for Black women and should not be normalized.
In my own experiences, I’ve noticed how white women often lean on their Black counterparts for support and education. While I am generally happy to assist friends in understanding racial issues, there are limits to what can be expected. If our only conversations revolve around current events or crises, it raises questions about the depth and sincerity of those friendships. No Black woman wants to be a token in anyone’s life.
Advocacy and Accountability
Black women will always advocate for the common good. However, standing up for ourselves can come with significant risks, including backlash and personal consequences. We are labeled as “difficult” or “troublemakers” for merely asserting our rights, yet our resolve persists because we recognize that no one else will advocate for us. It’s time for white women to step up and share that burden. You may admire us from afar, but standing beside us requires true commitment.
We are not your superheroes, nor are we here to fulfill your fantasies of being “queens” or “icons.” The expectation for us to serve as your saviors and meet impossible standards must end. It’s time for you to engage in the necessary work yourself, rather than relying on us to rescue you time and time again.
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Summary
This article addresses the unfair burden placed on Black women to solve societal issues and highlights the need for recognition of their contributions without unrealistic expectations. It draws attention to how Black women like Maya Johnson are often celebrated in the political realm, yet their struggles remain largely unacknowledged. The piece calls for a shift in accountability, urging white women to engage more actively in advocacy rather than relying on Black women to carry the weight.
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