As the new year begins, many people focus on setting resolutions. However, this year, I’m opting for a different approach. After aiming high in 2020 and achieving nothing, I found myself transforming into the most cynical version of myself. Thanks, 2020, but I’m taking a break from ambitious goals for now. Instead, I’m embracing valuable advice that can help me navigate whatever challenges lie ahead.
To gather some pearls of wisdom, I reached out on social media for the best advice people have received. Here are some of the standout pieces I’ll likely tape to my bathroom mirror, in no particular order:
- “When your pleasures are simple, no one can steal your happiness.” — Mia T., Florida
- “Everything is always better in the morning.” — Oliver V., Indiana
- “Don’t borrow trouble.” Focus on the present instead of worrying about what might happen in the future. — Sarah F., New York
- “Learn to love yourself first . . . and well.” — Jenna Q., Wisconsin
- “Some people are just difficult, and we don’t owe them excuses.” — Kyle R., North Carolina
- “Be bold, and great forces will come to your aid.” — Tessa P., Ohio
- “Get to know and love who you are; your relationship with yourself is the longest one you’ll have.” — Lily A., Michigan
- “Never pass up an opportunity to pee.” — Tara D., Florida
- “Form your own opinions about others — don’t just follow the crowd.” — Ethan J., South Africa
- “It’s okay to make mistakes, just remember to learn from them.” — Linda H., Texas
“Don’t lower yourself to their standards,” my mom always reminded me about taking the high road, not letting others dictate my behavior. — Lisa W., Florida
“God makes new babies strong enough to survive new parents.” — Sam G., South Carolina
“Don’t marry someone you have to raise, as you’ll be doing that forever, even after the kids leave.” — Jamie H., North Carolina (This applies to anyone, regardless of gender.)
“Not everyone thinks like you do.” A simple thought that has helped me understand others better. — Rachel S., Florida
“Doing something always puts you ahead of someone doing nothing.” — Jared M., South Carolina
“Visit the dentist twice a year.” — Emma T., New Jersey
Not exactly advice, but a motto I live by: “Now what are you going to do?” After facing challenges in my youth, my mom taught me not to wallow in self-pity but to make a plan. — Casey D., New York
“Apologize to your kids and seek their forgiveness when you mess up.” — Sarah K., Texas
“Don’t be a coulda-woulda-shoulda person.” — Marie R., Florida
“This too, shall pass.” This is great for tough times but also a reminder that good moments are fleeting. — Evan O., Florida
When going through a divorce, my mom advised, “It’s just stuff; you can always get more.” This mindset has helped me downsize during major moves. — Jennifer S., Hawaii
“Children grow despite us, not because of us.” — Courtney B., Wisconsin
“Indecision is a decision.” — Mary K., Florida
“Cat lovers and dog lovers can get along, but non-pet owners may struggle with pet owners.” — Sarah Q., New York
“What others think of me is none of my business.” — Christine S., Florida, and Paige C., North Carolina
“Everyone will have an opinion about you; it’s up to you to decide which ones matter.” — Virginia D., Pennsylvania
“My recovery friends always say, ‘We’re not in the business of outcomes,’ and that has helped me in various areas of my life.” — Janelle H., Netherlands
“Do one good thing for yourself every day, no matter how small.” This practice boosts self-esteem and helps you stay grounded amid chaos. — Lily R., Massachusetts
“It’s okay to go to bed angry. Conflicts can escalate when you’re tired, and clarity often comes after rest.” — MyLove M. B., Mississippi, and Tania Marie, Florida
“If you’re going to dream, dream big.” — Jeanne L.B., Illinois
“You get two chances at family: the one you’re born into and the one you create. You can’t change the first, but you have full control over the second.” — Kathy D., Illinois
“Never assume; always ask.” — Chitra M., Doha, Qatar
“Sometimes, let your brain lead instead of your heart.” — Elva T., Texas
“When dealing with a difficult teen, avoid escalation; be the adult and maintain control, even if it means walking away.” — Sinéad C., Ireland
“Life isn’t the timeline you envisioned at 18. Every decision alters your path. Take time to reassess your timeline for your self-worth.” — Marlie G.E., Canada
“Treat others the way you wish to be treated.” — Dana S., Florida
“Sometimes, darkness reveals the light.” — Mariah Y., Vermont
“Allow your children to fail so they can learn to recover.” — Maria N., Illinois
“You don’t have to believe in God, but you must believe in something greater than yourself.” — Jordin E.H., Colorado
“Just be yourself and ignore the critics.” — Jennifer T., Tennessee
“Remember to breathe.” — Tricia S., California, from our NICU nurses
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Summary
This year, instead of setting ambitious goals, I’m focusing on valuable advice to help navigate life’s challenges. Through social media, I’ve gathered wise words that emphasize self-love, resilience, and the importance of personal perspective. These insights will serve as daily reminders taped to my bathroom mirror, guiding me through 2021.
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