June has arrived, and with it comes the anticipation of Father’s Day. For many, it’s a delightful occasion filled with love and gratitude for the fathers in our lives. Yet, for others, it can evoke a mix of emotions—especially if they’re still nursing wounds from a neglected Mother’s Day (we won’t let that slide, by the way). Some navigate this day with complicated feelings toward their fathers or fathers-in-law, making it an annual emotional rollercoaster.
So, how are you preparing for this day? Do you have a strategy in place? Perhaps it’s a plan to retreat to a quiet spot with some chocolate and a glass of wine? I recently chatted with my partner, Alex, about our plans for Father’s Day, especially since our utility bill has skyrocketed. He suggested a simple celebration: a six-pack of his favorite beer, a homemade cake, and some barbecue chicken for dinner—no extravagant gifts required. I appreciate his easygoing nature.
Confessions of a Father’s Day Planner
Confessional #1: I got my partner an incredible Father’s Day gift, and I’m bursting to give it to him! He truly deserves the best.
Confessional #2: Yesterday, while Alex took care of our daughter so I could nap for three hours on Father’s Day, I felt he should get an award for his dedication.
Confessional #3: I splurged on a fancy bottle of scotch for him. Living with a household full of girls (even our dogs are female), he’s a saint for putting up with us!
If you’re gearing up for a joyful Father’s Day, we hope it’s filled with laughter, heartwarming cards, and all those dad jokes. However, if this day brings frustration due to an ungrateful partner or remnants of a disappointing Mother’s Day, we hope it passes swiftly.
Confessional #4: I despise Father’s Day. My partner’s a fantastic dad, but it’s hard not to feel envious when everyone else is celebrating their own wonderful fathers.
Confessional #5: My dad prioritized my stepmom over his own kids, and it stings every year to see the celebrations. Happy Father’s Day, Dad—you’ve missed so much.
Many of you may struggle with the weight of having had a less-than-ideal father, making this day particularly challenging. The obligation to visit in-laws, especially when they rarely acknowledge you outside of this day, can feel burdensome.
Confessional #6: I can’t stand when my partner asks me to select Father’s Day cards for his parents. I wish there were one that said, “Go away!”
Confessional #7: At my in-laws for Father’s Day, I’m hoping for a little patience to help me survive. Thank goodness I brought my Ativan.
It’s also common to deal with less-than-pleasant in-laws on this day—definitely one of the less appealing aspects of marriage.
Confessional #8: My kids are reminding me they can be bratty little monsters on Father’s Day too. My daughter covered herself in poop, and it was a chaotic shower experience. Happy Father’s Day to my partner!
Confessional #9: To add a bit of humor, I found out that sugar-free gummy bears could cause some serious digestive issues. Guess who’s getting some as a gag gift for Father’s Day?
Father’s Day might also be a chance to poke a little fun at an ex who didn’t treat you right. For some, it can be a day of reflection and remembrance, especially if you’re mourning a loved one.
Confessional #10: This is the first Father’s Day I won’t be able to visit my late fiancé’s grave. It’s unsettling, and I’m unsure how to process these emotions.
Confessional #11: My brother called me to wish me a happy Father’s Day as a single mom, affirming that I deserve recognition for doing both roles. That made my day a bit brighter!
Planning Father’s Day can feel like just another Sunday, with the usual breakfast and leisure time. But let’s be honest—every Sunday feels like Father’s Day when you’re the one who does it all!
Confessional #12: Let’s just say my mind wandered when I received an email from a restaurant about giving Dad what he really wants for Father’s Day. My thoughts took a cheeky turn.
Confessional #13: I even snuck in a quickie with my partner on Father’s Day while the kids were outside. It was thrilling to be spontaneous!
So, if Father’s Day is an opportunity to let loose and enjoy yourselves, go for it! Here’s to all the incredible dads who deserve a day of relaxation, a cold beer, or perhaps a new grill apron. We appreciate you! And for those moms who find this day challenging for various reasons, hang in there. It’s just one day. Let it be what it is, and come Monday, remember your own worth—whether or not you have an amazing partner to shower you with affection.
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In summary, Father’s Day can be filled with a range of emotions, from joy to frustration. Whether you’re celebrating with laughter or navigating complicated feelings, remember that it’s just a day.
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